goomstooms Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 Ok, his name is Mark. He's a family friend but I haven't seen him since I was 5. Anyways, I guess you could say we met at his cousin's wedding. There, he started noticing me and started to stare at me and turned away whenever I looked at him and made his little sis ask me all sorts of questions (i.e. what kind of guy I want to marry, if I had bf, if I remember him, etc). Then in January his father passed away. So my parents and I went to a visitation thing at the memorial place and he did the same thing (staring and turning away). When I went to hug him, he didnt let go. So the funeral was 3 days later and he did all those things again. Then afterwards, his mom invited everyone who attended the funeral to lunch at a vegetarian restaurant. I sat next to him and his little sis. He started to give me the 3rd degree. And when I went to say bye to him, he opened his arm out to hug me. Then back in march, I saw him again at a memorial service for his dad so he acted the same way as usual. Its weird because the first time I called him, he was at work but he was able to talk to me. Today I called him he said "Its a really bad time. Could you call me back later?" So I told one of my friends and she said to send him a text message telling him that "im really sorry for calling at such a bad time and telling him to "call me whenever he's free". He hasn't called me yet. Is he avoiding me or not interested? Please help.
whichwayisup Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 Give him atleast 2-3 days to get back to you. Never know what is going on in his life or at work - He could be really busy. And if he doesn't call you, don't call him again. Let him call you. You made the first move, now it's his turn.
Author goomstooms Posted May 27, 2006 Author Posted May 27, 2006 Give him atleast 2-3 days to get back to you. Never know what is going on in his life or at work - He could be really busy. And if he doesn't call you, don't call him again. Let him call you. You made the first move, now it's his turn. Thank you for replying! You're advice is really helpful.
Lovegod Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 Give him atleast 2-3 days to get back to you. Why? The guy's obviously interested, and he's waited long enough for a date! Goomstones, plan a date and invite him out. He's been waiting too damn long, and his testosterone is probably driving him up the freakin' wall. Quit making him suffer and take him out for some fun and lovin!
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