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So has she contacted you at all ? Are you still not calling her ? I afigure that is the best thing to do . I am also not calling my ex . I hope they realize what they lost and call to get back together . good luck . mrniceguyclimber

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MRNICEGUYCLIMBER

 

Nope haven't called still.

Has been a month now of NC.

 

She has a birthday in two months time. I wish she didn't.

 

Will she think im an arsehole for not wishin her happy birthday?

I'd llove to and its my nature that i would, even if not my ex. Its so hard eh.

 

How about you? how are you doing?

 

I have no idea wats gonna happen. We lived in differnt towns. The really strange thing is. I just got a new job in another town, and she's finisheing uni at the end of the year and also going to that town. We'll be at the same bars etc (small town, small country....like real little ha ha).

 

Huh, man whats gonna happen. I know Im gonna run into her.

I'm hoping not while she's with someone else.

 

This is the hard thing. I'd like our run in when it happens to be friendly and not that bad if u knw wat i mean. I just wish she could text or something as a friendly hi, or me with a birthday wish,... just so we both know theres no hard feelings and that when we do both run into each other we can say "hi" and smile, rather than "holy sh*t and and feel real uncomfortable and one of us ending up avoiding the other. Thats really what i dont want.

 

So hard.

 

Maybe after 3 months of no contact, it is ok, just to drop a quick hello some time. I dunno

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