Mike V Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Hi there, i need some help, i have been going out with my girlfriend for nine months now and i love here more than ever. But recently i got the sense that she has changed, she doesnt pay me the attention she used to, she doesnt talk as much as she used to, when i tell her i love her she says it in a different way than she used to. she hasnt offered or asked for a kiss or cuddle in ages. this really worries me because im planning to propose to her next month. Does anyone know what could be wrong ive asked her and she insists that nothing is wrong. Also her labido has been a bit low lately could this have something to do with it? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
whichwayisup Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 Hi Mike, Do you two live together as well? Maybe she is stressed about work/college? I'm not sure how old you both are...It's possible that if she is stressed, sex and intimacy is the last thing on her mind. How are things otherwise? Any fights? She has told you things are fine and nothing is wrong, so believe her. If things don't improve, maybe ask again and make her feel that she can tell you anything - Not to be afraid if it's something you may not want to hear. Good luck and keep posting.
mikev Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 No we dont live together, im 18 and my girlfriend is 18 tommorow, i could be college. We havent had any serious fights the whole time we have been together. Although i did find out that she has an anarexia problem, and i told her to stop fasting because she is already under wieght. Come to think of it shes only been acting like this after i found out could this be it? I want to believe her but my gut feeling wont shut up. Thanks for the reply
Mary3 Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 No we dont live together, im 18 and my girlfriend is 18 tommorow, i could be college. We havent had any serious fights the whole time we have been together. Although i did find out that she has an anarexia problem, and i told her to stop fasting because she is already under wieght. Come to think of it shes only been acting like this after i found out could this be it? I want to believe her but my gut feeling wont shut up. Thanks for the reply Anorexia is about being in control of one aspect of your body when you are feeling out of control in other areas of your life. You basically starve yourself and it is deliberate. It is also a lifetime problem. It can be improved but it never really goes away. Some women die from this . A distorted sense of self and image. I would have her seek counseling asap.
mikev Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 Dont worry it wasnt that. Actually whichwayisup was right, we had a long chat and it was college and money problems too. she didnt wat to tell me becasue she thought she would sound stupid. thanks for all your help.
Guest001 Posted May 31, 2006 Posted May 31, 2006 AMEN BROTHER!!!! When in doubt, get it straight from the horses mouth!!
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