brownguy123 Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 So i am seeing someone right now and we have both professed our love for eachother. I went out of town for a school conference for 4 days and when I came back I called to see how she was doing, she was very distant and didnt seem interested in what I had to say. For the past week or so she has been like this and the other day when I called her she was completely non-responsive and basically giving me one word answers. I asked her what was wrong and she said nothing and continued to give me one word answers. I finally said ok I will talk to you later you don't seem to happy. With that we ended our conversation. I have been talking to her on and off on MSN and she said that she gets emotional sometimes ( no idea why) it just happens and that I might be smothering her too much. So i said ok I will back off for now until you feel you have all the space you need. She was concerned about that and said she doesnt want me to stop calling or hanging out with her. I am totally confused i feel as though she wants to break up but I don't know. I decided not to call her for a few days ( been 2 days so far) to give her her "space" What does she mean by this and #2 am I doing the right thing by not calling her? Perhaps she means she doesnt want me to call at all. any advice would be helpful
kitten chick Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 If she says you're smothering her then back off. She'll realize how much she misses you soon enough. Yes, you're doing the right thing by not calling her.
milokins Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 I agree with kitten. Give her some space and she'll call you when she's ready.
Author brownguy123 Posted May 26, 2006 Author Posted May 26, 2006 She mentioned that she was going thru that. I guess that's what it is. But its been like 4 days and I haven't talked to her, this can't be normal or is it?
Solachica Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 Some women go through different moods in PMS. Give her some time and see if there is any change.
Guest Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 Holy crap was she ever rude to me today, I don't even want to talk to her right now. I understand she is going thru pms but i was asking her questions and she was responding rudely " are you clinically retarded?" things like that. Thats just crossing the line.
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