Nur Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 What defines "great chemistry" to you? What is it about someone that makes you feel like you have no chemistry or great chemistry with them? Have you been in some relationships which have better chemistry than others? How did that affect those relationships in term of length and intensity? Also, is "great chemistry" something temporary (like the honeymoon stage) or felt eternally? How long can "the spark" burn?
SILLYRABBIT Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Take a little bit of sweet, a dash of compassion, throw in some patience, kindness, a splash of humor, and some great sex. Now don't forget just a tiny bit of attitude. Now, take some beauty, mix with above ingredients, do not shake, just gently mix. That is my wife according to me :-)... the perfect chemistry to balance out my weird ass, but the trick is, SHE LOVES ME? I don't really know how it works Nur, but if you have it(Great Chemistry), you certainly know it. I guess the feeling I would describe is having a sense of being, home, where you belong. No chemistry = short relationship Great chemistry along with great timing = very long relationship I believe it also has to do with maturity. Some people, like myself, did not find themselves until later in life. With that said, sometimes Chemistry can be temporary due to one person changing or growing into themselves. SILLY RABBIT
little_girl Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 i believe u have 2 have chemistry or u will go looking else where! i have a good friend with benefits & there is lots of chemistry with us!!
Tim'sAngel Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 Take a little bit of sweet, a dash of compassion, throw in some patience, kindness, a splash of humor, and some great sex. Now don't forget just a tiny bit of attitude. Now, take some beauty, mix with above ingredients, do not shake, just gently mix. That is my wife according to me :-)... the perfect chemistry to balance out my weird ass, but the trick is, SHE LOVES ME? Aaawwwww Silly!! That was so sweet!! I think there are 2 differnt types of chemistry, or at least in my experience. Sexual chemistry, where the 2 of you cannot wait to rip each others clothes off and just the smell of his/her scent makes you hott! And then there is the kind of chemistry I have w/my SO. In fact that is what first drew us together. The very first day we met and hung out, there was this thick static between us. I could feel it the closer I got to him. Then when we kissed for the first time, it was like electricity. But it wasn't just a sexual thing. All I could think about the next couple of days was the spark I felt when we kissed. It was just a short, tender kiss, but so much feeling!! It drove me crazy for weeks until I saw him again, and the rest is history I still feel that spark when I kiss him. I love it!! I've neve felt t his way for anyone
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