Guest Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Does a man know when a woman is attracted to him? I am an attractive female and when I talk to this man I feel chemistry between us but I'm afraid to say anything.
everlastinggobstoppr Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 i'm not sure about others but i'm a man and i'm extremely oblivious to things like that for some reason.
westernxer Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 I'm totally oblivious to this as well. Sometimes I find out from someone else... maybe this is why women act so strange around me sometimes.
johan Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 Every woman I meet wants me. She just doesn't show it. On the other hand, I rarely show my interest. We all just kind of ignore each other.
tonyp56 Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 Reverse the question, do women know when men are attracted to them? Many times if I think a woman is attracted to me, I over analize it by saying stuff like "she is just being friendly, she must be in a good mood, etc." to myself. Sometimes it can be very hard to figure out what a woman is feeling, she could just be friendly and not have any interest in me at all. Which stops me from jumping out there myself. Fear of rejection is on both sides, men and women both fear being rejected and don't want to go through that. So many times people (male and female) are oblivious to someone else being attracted to them.
westernxer Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 On the other hand, I rarely show my interest. I'm guilty as charged. Too self-absorbed, perhaps.
alphamale Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 I'm totally oblivious to this as well. extended eye contact and smiling is the dead give away.
whichwayisup Posted May 29, 2006 Posted May 29, 2006 extended eye contact and smiling is the dead give away. That and a raging hard-on! I figure if you feel that sexual attraction really strong, chances are so does he. That's what makes sexual attraction and feeling that chemistry REALLY strong is when both people are feeling it.
runner Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 i don't think i can tell either, but its not hard to tell if some girl is going out of her way to be 'friendly' with me. i just try to be polite with them in any case.
luvtoto Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 Being polite or over-friendly is not an indicator of having the hots for a man. I am a very friendly person...it's just in my nature, and it gets misinterpreted from time to time. The guy assumes that I must want him just cause I am friendly and willing to talk to him. The guys that I DO like, I am quiet & shy around, and I'll just stare at 'em from a distance. Alpha's right, extended eye contact is a dead give away.
KillaPetehog Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 Does a man know when a woman is attracted to him? I am an attractive female and when I talk to this man I feel chemistry between us but I'm afraid to say anything. I'm about to lay down the three biggest tells. It's probably been said by all the guys here....but it's the easiest and most effective tells. What are they? The first thing I usually do is see whether the girl laughs at every damn thing I say. Usually if a girl really likes you...she'll laugh at almost everything you say. It's not rocket science...try it sometime. If you suspect a girl likes you but you aren't sure..think of a dumb joke or a dumb comment that's not really funny...If she laughs...Man, that's a good sign. The second thing I do..is kinda lean in. ANY GIRL....will lean back if you swoop in on them...BUT...if you kind of subtly lean forward towards her..she'll either do one of three things. 1. She will lean back 2. She will lean forward 3. She will stay put If she leans back...OH MAN..that's bad. OUCH!That means she doesn't like you. If she leans forward....THAT'S VERY good..it's on, man. If she stays put..it's still a good thing. Just kinda lean in and see what she does. EVERY GIRL that likes you..will usually lean forward. The last thing is when SHE ASKS you questions. Is she curious about you? Does she ask you questions? Does she ask about YOU? Is she asking more questions than you are asking her? If it's all good for ALL THREE...dude, she's yours. I know all you advanced guys know this rule.. It's the most common and most effective rule to tell if a girl likes you. Peace.
alphamale Posted May 30, 2006 Posted May 30, 2006 Alpha's right, extended eye contact is a dead give away. of course I'm right, woman! being a good looking dude myself I've had quite a bit of experience with eye contact from females The last thing is when SHE ASKS you questions. Is she curious about you? yeah, that a big one too. the more personal questions she asks the man the more she likes him (unless of course his answers are all bad)
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