oss91 Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 i've known this girl for quite a while and we are good friends. ever since breaking up with her longterm boyfriend six months ago, she has dated lord knows how many guys since then. we have gone out a few times in the past few months and every time, we seem to have a lot of fun, laugh, and just generally tease one another. all signs of attraction. i am attracted to her, and i am pretty confident i can tell she's attracted to me. however, after watching her closely, there's also one thing i have noticed about her that is confusing to me. she loves to flirt and be the center of attention, which is no big deal. but what i've noticed is that when she is talking to me (and she LOVES to talk), she will very rarely make eye contact with me. when she does, it's just a very quick glance, almost as if she's really nervous to look me in the eye. kind of flaky. after noticing her flirt with other guys however, i have found that she has no problem looking them in the eye. i have also noticed and been told by others, that i stand up to her and am one of the only guys that ever has. what gives? does she feel intimidated by me? or just really on edge because i won't let myself be wrapped around her finger like every other guy? for instance, she is trying very hard to talk the guy she is currently seeing (for about a week), to take her to italy for a week-long trip this summer. personally, there's no way i would take a girl to italy after only knowing her for a few months, let alone a week! that's just crazy. or am i just completely misreading the situation?
Yamaha Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 She knows you like her and she is uncomfortable in making eye contact with you as to leading you on. If she had any interest other than friendship she would not be dating other guys but would be giving you interest. My rule of thumb is that if you have to guess if a girl is interested in you then she probably isn't.
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