nicksinif Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 first of all, i am a japanese guy. by asian guys, im talking about oriental, not hindu or pakistani. i have read some stuff on this forum and on others that indicate asian guys as being feminin and therefore undesirable by white women, but let me ask this question. why do so many white women like to hang around gay guys? you dont see very many women hanging around oriental guys because theyre too "feminin", but gay white guys are just as feminin.
canadian303 Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 i know lots of white girls that hang around asians at school. so white girls do hang around asians
Tim'sAngel Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 first of all, i am a japanese guy. by asian guys, im talking about oriental, not hindu or pakistani. i have read some stuff on this forum and on others that indicate asian guys as being feminin and therefore undesirable by white women, but let me ask this question. why do so many white women like to hang around gay guys? you dont see very many women hanging around oriental guys because theyre too "feminin", but gay white guys are just as feminin. I've never heard nor read that asian men are feminin. Niether do I think they are. In fact, I find them rather sexy, especially their eyes!! I've only been w/one and I found him to be neither feminin or overly manly. He was a happy medium. I went out a few times w/another asain man, and he was a bit unmanly, but I don't believe it had anything to do w/ethnicity, his family was super rich and he was spoiled all his life. Ugh.. thats a whole other story...
Guest Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 are you looking for female attention in general, or do they have to white women?
l2hvn Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Oh geesh.. Another Asian guy whining. First of all, you do not call Asians Orientals. That's a very derogative word. Second of all, it seems like you lack some self-confidence. Otherwise, you wouldn't be whining about how you're being ignored by white girls.
catgirl1927 Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 "feminine" Sorry. I'm just anal that way. Perhaps if you stopped judging girls based on their race, you wouldn't be so worried that they are judging you based on yours. It's not about race. It's a convenient excuse, but a hot guy is a hot guy, no matter who his parents are.
MadDog Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 That's bulls***. One of my friends is an Asian guy and he's one of the manlinest guys I know. He's the type of guy who would cut off his own arm if he got it trapped in a boulder in the wild. Girls, white or asian, flock to him because of his confidence.
alphamale Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 guys as being feminin and therefore undesirable by white women, but let me ask this question. why do so many white women like to hang around gay guys? you dont see very many women hanging around oriental guys because theyre too "feminin", but gay white guys are just as feminin. because in western societies (american specifically) the asian male is stereotyped as weak, small in stature, feminine and docile. the exact opposite of what american women want in a man. the only part i think is true is that asian men may be smaller in stature, on average. but they are still men in all other ways.
Chump64 Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 I am having deja vu. I posted here in Feb. and March and was gone since then. I just came back a few days ago but I recall seeing threads just like this way back then. Why is this a recurring theme?
everlastinggobstoppr Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 wow, i see these kinds of threads everywhere. and not even in dating related forums i would tell you to just relax. are you just seeking female attention, or does she have to be a white woman in particular? I would go with what catgirl1927 said and drop the racial component, because it really sounds like you're on the prowl. do asian women give you the same trouble?
SmoochieFace Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 It would be nice if people would quit looking at other people for WHAT they are and instead look at them for WHO they are. And it would REALLY be nice if people would quit lumping everyone into generalised groups based on race, body hair, mannerisms, penis size, etc. and instead look at people as unique individuals.
ronnieromance Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 THe race card is weak. But if you do see consistancies, they can be attributed to upbringing and environment much more than genetics. This is true with a lot more than people give credit for. -R-
LexiB Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 are you just seeking female attention, or does she have to be a white woman in particular? Seriously:rolleyes: All of these race threads seem to have the same thing in common ~ trying to hook up w/ someone who's caucasian. Of course there are MANY gorgeous white ppl but the implication seems to be that there's a prize for snagging one of them....? Just date, for the love of God!!
alphamale Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Seriously:rolleyes: All of these race threads seem to have the same thing in common ~ trying to hook up w/ someone who's caucasian. Of course there are MANY gorgeous white ppl but the implication seems to be that there's a prize for snagging one of them....? most white chicks don't give oriental dudes the time of day. that is why they are highly prized. can you imagine a blonde scandanavian woman in Japan? there would be men commiting hara-kiri just to have a chance with her
SmoochieFace Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Of course there are MANY gorgeous white ppl but the implication seems to be that there's a prize for snagging one of them....? There are many *gorgeous* people of ALL races.
everlastinggobstoppr Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Seriously:rolleyes: All of these race threads seem to have the same thing in common ~ trying to hook up w/ someone who's caucasian. Of course there are MANY gorgeous white ppl but the implication seems to be that there's a prize for snagging one of them....? Just date, for the love of God!!i've had that same problem with asian women trying to approach/date me on the same basis (me being white). I always found it a bit offputting
SmoochieFace Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 i've had that same problem with asian women trying to approach/date me on the same basis (me being white). I always found it a bit offputting What is *wrong* with Asian women?
everlastinggobstoppr Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 What is *wrong* with Asian women?oh there's nothing wrong with them. it's just that i don't like women who are on the prowl after what you possess (in this case a racial characteristic), rather than getting to know who you are. it's kinda like gold digging. i remember an asian woman who i agreed to go to a movie with (we were coworkers and she played it off as a 'friendly' thing), and how she told everyone the next day we were dating. she seemed attractive enough but i really couldn't dig the whole dying her hair blonde, wearing colored contacts, plastic surgery, etc, and her vocally dissing other minorities (including asians) a lot of the time. it was apparent she really wanted to be white. now that i think about it, maybe i just didn't like the whole inferiority complex in any case, i found out later that she was pretty much throwing herself at every white guy in the department so maybe there was that sluttiness factor too. there were three more asian women after her who told me "i only date white guys", or how they disdain asian guys, or something to that effect. I call it Michael Jackson's syndrome It's just that i find insecurity extremely unattractive, if not revolting in some particular cases. the whole thing left a bad taste in my mouth.
SuperMonk Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 first of all, i am a japanese guy. by asian guys, im talking about oriental, not hindu or pakistani. i have read some stuff on this forum and on others that indicate asian guys as being feminin and therefore undesirable by white women, but let me ask this question. why do so many white women like to hang around gay guys? you dont see very many women hanging around oriental guys because theyre too "feminin", but gay white guys are just as feminin. It is true dude. Realistically speaking, go to a gay part of town, see how the gay boys dress. Now go check out some Asians. Here's a good pictorial image why some people think Asians are effeminate/gay: http://web.mit.edu/csc/www/img/details.jpg A lot of people thought it was racist, it is somewhat racist but at least they're honest, I mean why would a straight guy want to dress like a gay guy? That EMO/punk thing is gay too, and some hip hop genre type people are kinda gay. I live in an urban city in California and the Asian teen immigrants got some weird 80s punk thing going on and the guys.. Well guess what: Skinny, Nice Guy voice, glasses. I mean come on, compare that to any hollywood action film and you'll understand. Some girls like the Metrosexual look, but I think deep down they want a dude. I mean, I'm very sure that women would prefer a scruffy looking tough guy to rescue them than some pretty boy. The girls that like pretty boys tend to be insecure, weak, and high maintenance themselves. Gay boys: 1. Short hair 2. Tight clothes 3. Fashionable 4. Cute Some Asians: 1. Short hair 2. Tight clothes 3. Fashionable 4. Some are cute
SuperMonk Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 oh there's nothing wrong with them. it's just that i don't like women who are on the prowl after what you possess (in this case a racial characteristic), rather than getting to know who you are. it's kinda like gold digging. i remember an asian woman who i agreed to go to a movie with (we were coworkers and she played it off as a 'friendly' thing), and how she told everyone the next day we were dating. she seemed attractive enough but i really couldn't dig the whole dying her hair blonde, wearing colored contacts, plastic surgery, etc, and her vocally dissing other minorities (including asians) a lot of the time. it was apparent she really wanted to be white. now that i think about it, maybe i just didn't like the whole inferiority complex in any case, i found out later that she was pretty much throwing herself at every white guy in the department so maybe there was that sluttiness factor too. there were three more asian women after her who told me "i only date white guys", or how they disdain asian guys, or something to that effect. I call it Michael Jackson's syndrome It's just that i find insecurity extremely unattractive, if not revolting in some particular cases. the whole thing left a bad taste in my mouth. There's a term for those Asian girls, "CCB" I bet she wasn't even attractive either. Asian women believe they are valued really high due to mainstream oversexualizing them that any Asian girl assume a White guy will take them. But if you look closely, the Asian women who typically dates a White guy is NEVER ever CUTE OR ATTRACTIVE. The attractive ones seem to only go out with Asian guys, hence there is this self-hatred of themselves. This is why I'd never opt for an Asian woman, cause I'm getting the leftovers!
Ayumi Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Isn't it strange that when an Asian guy does get a white girl, it's always a girl with blonde hair and blue eyes. rarely a brunette.
Guest Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 because in western societies (american specifically) the asian male is stereotyped as weak, small in stature, feminine and docile. the exact opposite of what american women want in a man. the only part i think is true is that asian men may be smaller in stature, on average. but they are still men in all other ways. i dont think indian guys have this problem what do you think. punjabi guys are huge. many indians are hired to be security guards because people are intimidated by them.
Guest Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 most white chicks don't give oriental dudes the time of day. that is why they are highly prized. can you imagine a blonde scandanavian woman in Japan? there would be men commiting hara-kiri just to have a chance with her thats the funny thing though. oriental guys in japan usually dont go for white girls because theyre not used to them. its more the overseas orientals that are into white girls. ive talked to many oriental guys from japan, china, that prefer their own kind. i dont know how it is with desis.
Author nicksinif Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 most white chicks don't give oriental dudes the time of day. that is why they are highly prized. can you imagine a blonde scandanavian woman in Japan? there would be men commiting hara-kiri just to have a chance with her id have to disagree. most oriental guys are not into white girls. if they did, its mainly the overseas orientals that have an interest in white women. i have talked to many japanese and chinese guys who are just not attracted to white women. i dont see white girls as being very popular in japan or china. i dont know how it is with desis.
Author nicksinif Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 i've had that same problem with asian women trying to approach/date me on the same basis (me being white). I always found it a bit offputting i doubt very many oriental women find white guys to be too skinny. however i have heard that in china, the nerdy type is seen as desirable because they have good jobs. in the u.s., it seems like the bad ass type are the ones that get the girls regardless of what kind of job they have, or if they have no job at all.
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