Author luvtoto Posted May 24, 2006 Author Posted May 24, 2006 Luvtoto - If he wanted to be with a stripper now, he'd be with one. I've been with all types of people in the past that I wouldn't be caught dead with now. I think the stripper girl hits a sensitive spot with you because of your own curiosity/insecurities. If YOU would like to explore it, then go ahead. But don't do it so you can "live up" to her or anyone else. BTW - "toto" in Spanish means "pu**y". Just thought you should know. No freakin' way! That's my dog's name!! :lmao: I am freakin' bustin' a gut! Come here pu**y!! Haha! Yes, kitkat, you have hit the nail on the head. It is a sensitive spot for me because the curiosity of the whole thing is killing me. I would like to explore it...but, I don't think my IRL friends or family would approve. So, I won't. I will just leave my curiosity to my imagination.
Author luvtoto Posted May 24, 2006 Author Posted May 24, 2006 Wait one minute...my online name is Luvpu**y. I am never gonna live this down! Haha!
Vertex Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Don't focus too much on the stripper thing though... like just because he dated one doesn't mean it's necessarily good to bring it up a lot in terms of words and actions. If anything he is more... educated Besides if he hangs at strip clubs it might be fun if you're both into it. As long as it's all out there, you know
Author luvtoto Posted May 24, 2006 Author Posted May 24, 2006 Don't focus too much on the stripper thing though... like just because he dated one doesn't mean it's necessarily good to bring it up a lot in terms of words and actions. If anything he is more... educated Besides if he hangs at strip clubs it might be fun if you're both into it. As long as it's all out there, you know Well, I've never brought the stripper thing up to him. He doesn't know how I feel. I am not sure if I'll tell him about my insecurities. Just cause I have these insecurities, doesn't mean, I am telling him all of them. Know what I mean? He does seem to know a woman's body pretty well.
Vertex Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 It seems like an insecurity best crushed under the weight of a good thrusting
Author luvtoto Posted May 24, 2006 Author Posted May 24, 2006 It seems like an insecurity best crushed under the weight of a good thrusting Haha! Think I'll ask him to take me to a strip club next time I see him.
kitkat826 Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 No freakin' way! That's my dog's name!! :lmao: I am freakin' bustin' a gut! Come here pu**y!! Haha! ...So you should also know that I have uttered your dog's name a couple of times now while getting used to talking dirty with my current Dominican boyfriend.
ronnieromance Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Um...I found out that my new guy used to date a stripper. He said it was a rebound after his divorce. Oh man. He lives in a state were strip clubs are legal. He only had good things to say about her. I mean, he didn't trash her to me. Which I thought was a good sign. But, part of me...well, you know. Would that turn you off? I feel a little intimidated now. Am I being too general here with my assumptions? Dude, I'm really starting to think this is like the phenomenon where some guys get jealous of their current lovers ex-man because he had a bigger dick. It's really silly. Why on earth are you intimidated. They aren't the holy grail of femaledom, you know. SOme of them a rather striking, but most aren't. Does that put your mind at ease? -R-
l2hvn Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Luvtoto, I know how you feel. My bf told me he used to date a stripper. I was disgusted/turned off/intimidated, etc. all because I was insecure of my own body and sexuality. And I never told him. I just played it cool. But then I think about it, she's an ex for a reason. I know I have a lot more things to offer. Besides, I saw a picture of hers (by accident) and that was the end of my insecurities. Like someone has suggested, if you're that curious, then buy the Carmen Electra dvd.
Author luvtoto Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 Well, guys...he hasn't called me since Sunday night. I called him last night, but he didn't seem too into the convo. I am thinking that with a long distance relationship we would need to talk at least once a day to keep in touch. I think all this over-rationalizing I've been doing has been my way of keeping him at a distance. I don't care how great he is, the truth is if we would happen to work out, I would have to move where he lives. He's already mentioned that he won't move too far from his kids. I don't want to move. I like my life. I like my house. I don't want to uproot my kids for anyone. I didn't realize how much I would have to lose, until I got to thinking... I don't think having a long distance relationship is *really* what I am looking for. It's too much work!
tinktronik Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Well, good youv'e come to a descision that works for you.
Author luvtoto Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 Well, good youv'e come to a descision that works for you. I found out that a person can't ignore the truth. I didn't let him get close to me, cause I knew deep down that it just wouldn't work out. I am not gonna put all that effort into something that would go nowhere.
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