downwardspiral Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Ok, my friend came over my house a month ago, and used my computer to flirt with girls in a chat room. Now my friend has always been like that, he is like the the bad boy, heart breaker type of guy,and to top it off he looks really good. So he met this girl online and was talking to her for a bit. He showed her his picture and everything. After a while he then left my house. I didn't know that he had left his screen name on, and a couple of hours later the girl was sending messages. The biggest mistake i ever made was replying to it pretending that i was my friend. In my mind, i thought we were only gonna speak for about 20 min and thats it...... We spoke for about 6 hours online!. She then actually gave me her phone number and asked me to call her right at that moment. In my mind i was like "wow, this girl is crazy" I couldn't belive that she would do that. We spoke on the phone from 10pm all the way to 7am in the morning. From that day forward, we would talk to each other almost every single day in the past month. She just seems like the perfect girl for me. I mean we just have sooooo much in common. It's like she can't stop thinking of me and i can't stop thinking of her. Now this is were everything gets all tangled up. She lives a state away from me, and she wants me to come and visit her. To tell you the truth, she is not that far away at all, and up to this very day she still thinks that i'm my friend in the picture. I really want to tell her the truth, but it feels like i'm just gonna break her heart and loose all of her trust. I really feel bad, because i've never done something like this before. Could you guys tell me what to do?
phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Wow that sucks. You should've told her the truth when you started talking to her. There's really nothing you can do now. Just tell her the truth and apologize. Maybe she'll give you a chance, I doubt it. But who knows?
Aloros Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 The longer you wait, the worse it will probably get. Better 'fess up before you find yourself digging yourself in deeper and deeper with more lies or excuses. In these situations, there's really no other way to uncomplicate things except by telling the truth. And apologize. A lot. Hope that helps!
Tim'sAngel Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Seems to me you have 3 choices: 1. Plan on meeting up with her without telling her that picture isn't of you 2. Tell her the truth before you meet 3. Quit calling her and chatting with her altogether Any of those choices will hurt her, the choice is yours
lance.dark Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 That's the benefit of not actually "knowing" the person, and talking just online or by phone. You can just walk away from it. Yeah, yeah boo hoo it might hurt her but it is sort of her fault for getting involved in an online relationship. Cowards way out I guess. Or you can tell her it's not you, then if she never wants to speak to you again, block her etc. You really are making it just seem more difficult than it is.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 Or you can tell her it's not you, then if she never wants to speak to you again, block her etc. Um... wouldn't that then be pointless?
Author downwardspiral Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 Well i always tell myself that i'm gonna stop talking to her, but i just can't. You see she is a 19 year old single mom and she lives all by herself with a 4 month year old baby. I can relate to her because my sister is 18 and she just had a baby also. I just wish i could just be there to help her. I really feel like s***. She needs to know the truth, but i just don't know how to tell her.urgh....i've developed alot of feelings for this girl to just block her out.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Well i always tell myself that i'm gonna stop talking to her, but i just can't. You see she is a 19 year old single mom and she lives all by herself with a 4 month year old baby. I can relate to her because my sister is 18 and she just had a baby also. I just wish i could just be there to help her. I really feel like s***. She needs to know the truth, but i just don't know how to tell her.urgh....i've developed alot of feelings for this girl to just block her out. You never know, she might be so into you she will forgive you and you can still meet. She has a 4 month old year baby? lol what kind of baby is that?
Author downwardspiral Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 She has a 4 month old year baby? lol what kind of baby is that? ^^^---HAHA!!, sorry, i don't know what the hell is wrong with me, lol:laugh:
Tim'sAngel Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 She has a 4 month old year baby? lol what kind of baby is that? ^^^---HAHA!!, sorry, i don't know what the hell is wrong with me, lol:laugh: Maybe your in loooooooooove:D
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