SpyderBaby Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 My now ex boyfriend and I had been together for almost 7 months. I love him and he loves me. Unfortunately, recently we started arguing a lot. This past weekend I asked him for a lend of £1 so I could get a drink as I was really thirsty and completely skint. He said no. I got over it quick enough, wasn't really bothered. Several hours later, I asked for a cigarette, and he was a complete jerk about it and snapped at me for even asking (I dont usually ask him for these things, I was just unusually poor this past weekend, a lot of my money had to be used on other things). Anyway, we were at our friends flat whenever this happened. When we got back to mine I asked him could I talked to him about what had happened. Basically he said I was using him for money and such other possessions and by being an arse about it, he was 'teaching me a lesson' and showing me that I 'cant always get my own way'. Err, okay. We've always had wee problems, but I've always been more than willing to sort things out and everything always was sorted out. He decided anyway that he wanted a break and a bit of space apart. Apparently I'd been bugging the hell out of lately, among with other people. It was upsetting, but I agreed it was probably for the best. This was on Sunday night past. On Monday he texted me, just general conversation, and everything seemed fine between us. He said he definitely wanted to get back with me, he just needed time and he hoped I understood. I said I understood and I was relieved that he said he wanted back with me, so I stopped worrying about the situation as much. How wrong was I. Monday night (last night) he texted me saying that he didn't want to get back with me again because he was fed up with my s*** and that he wasn't taking it any more. He said that he didn't want this to happen, but obviously he did otherwise he would have worked his way around it and WORKED on things as we had previously planned. I texted back and more or less made out that I was upset that he'd given me false hope and asked why did he do this. I got no reply. However, whenever I switched on my phone this morning, I had a text from him. It said "What the f**k have you been saying about me on Myspace?". I had not said a damn thing about him. I texted back and told him that and, as I was pissed of, I said that I'd not said a thing about him and to grow up and stop trying to start s**t, and if he wasn't trying to start s***, then who told him these lies. Again, no reply. We had arranged yesturday for me to visit him and talk about stuff today (before I receieved the text saying he didnt want to get back with me) and as I was now uncertain as to whether the plans where changed or not (I take it they have been, but wanted to check). I asked him to please let me know, I asked him a decent manner. No goddamn reply. Waited a few hours. Tried ringing him and he hung up on me. Okay, whatever. Went about my buisness for a bit and tried again, and his phone was off! I was annoyed and decided to cool off for a bit. I tried there about 15 minutes ago to see if his phone was back on and it is. I let the phone ring just the once and hung up- I was still too annoyed to talk to him, so I'm thinking about ringing him later. I don't usually hound him as you see above, but I'm just so confused and upset. I really cannot understand why he decided to just finish it and why he's suddenly turned nasty. All I want is a talk with him and to see whats the matter, but why doesn't he respect that and give me the chance?
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