DarkBeauty06 Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 If you are a woman who has had bad experiences with men, do you bash them during conversations with others? If you are a man who has had a bad experience with women do you bash them in conversations with others? I Have some friends who are married. They bash the crap out of each other. Infront of others too. He cheated several times, she can't stand it, so instead of leaving, she stays but bashes him. Like a manhater. She ended up cheating her self several years later after he confessed to his affair. So now he bashes her as well. Like a womanhater. They both wont leave the relationship, but love to hurt each others feeling infront of others. Have you ever bashed the oppsoite sex, say pretty much on a regular basis due to something they had done to you? When did you let it all go and stop the bashing?
SuperMonk Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 I bash women and men, and yes it's because I dislike some women whose behavior or appearance remind me of past women I've dealt with as well as men who exhibit behavior or apperance of those I do not get along with around. Uh, I don't necessarily verbally abuse people though, or put them down. Seems like unwarranted cause in the first place if I didn't like them, I'd avoid them. The womanbasher who got cheated, well He has reason to woman bash he has been betrayed! Of course he'll bash bash bash, he's got to avoid his ho-of a wife and take care of himself before he'll stop bashing.
Pyro Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 If you are a woman who has had bad experiences with men, do you bash them during conversations with others? If you are a man who has had a bad experience with women do you bash them in conversations with others? I Have some friends who are married. They bash the crap out of each other. Infront of others too. He cheated several times, she can't stand it, so instead of leaving, she stays but bashes him. Like a manhater. She ended up cheating her self several years later after he confessed to his affair. So now he bashes her as well. Like a womanhater. They both wont leave the relationship, but love to hurt each others feeling infront of others. Have you ever bashed the oppsoite sex, say pretty much on a regular basis due to something they had done to you? When did you let it all go and stop the bashing? Their is no point in bashing all woman or all men. If I were to bash woman on a regular basis, I can see myself turning into one of those bitter old men. Yes, I have had my bad experiences with some woman, but I choose not to take it out on all of them. Each woman is different and unique.
NTB Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 its harder for most to move on so they dwell in the past and bash there partners. this is were all the bitter old people come from
Pyro Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 its harder for most to move on so they dwell in the past and bash there partners. this is were all the bitter old people come from I second that. Its amazing how many people that i have talked to claimed that they don't live in the past and they bash people that do, but yet, they continue to have all this hatred toward their ex's.
Mary3 Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 Their is no point in bashing all woman or all men. If I were to bash woman on a regular basis, I can see myself turning into one of those bitter old men. Yes, I have had my bad experiences with some woman, but I choose not to take it out on all of them. Each woman is different and unique. Excellent Post
jerbear Posted May 26, 2006 Posted May 26, 2006 as a guy I once suggested a set of my friends who were yelling, upset, bashing, bad mouthing and what not to each other to put those vinyl sumo wrestler suits on and go at it. They never did it before and it would be something they both did together, get their anger out, and I get to watch them go at it in a productive way. Both of them looked at me really funny, upset, about to laugh, POed; then asked me to leave. I told them, If they attacked me, they would have somewhat settled their differences, if they talked to each other, they would eventually settle their differences. Either way they have to work together and talk to one another. I guess I POed them and diffused the situation. They calmed down, communicated like people then parted ways, never heard from those two again; at least no smack downs happened. I think the bashers need to calm down once in awhile and really act silly to see how silly they are sometimes. I certainly do not want to end up being a bitter old male hermit. They maybe like another set of people I once knew. They were the bashing, bad mouthing, drama couple; their conflicts with each other bonded them together. Maybe that is how they work? If you are a woman who has had bad experiences with men, do you bash them during conversations with others? If you are a man who has had a bad experience with women do you bash them in conversations with others? I Have some friends who are married. They bash the crap out of each other. Infront of others too. He cheated several times, she can't stand it, so instead of leaving, she stays but bashes him. Like a manhater. She ended up cheating her self several years later after he confessed to his affair. So now he bashes her as well. Like a womanhater. They both wont leave the relationship, but love to hurt each others feeling infront of others. Have you ever bashed the oppsoite sex, say pretty much on a regular basis due to something they had done to you? When did you let it all go and stop the bashing?
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