Groupie Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 I just found out that my boyfriend has a fiance. They have been together 2 years and have just bought a house together. The reason that I didn't figure this out is because he lives in London and I live in Scotland. I want revenge on him. I want him to feel my hurt. Does anyone have any ideas? Please don't tell me it's wrong to want revenge...I need to do this. I'm so angry and so lost right now.
littlekitty Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 How long were you together? I'd take a guess this was an Online Romance considering the distance? Did you see each other often? I'm sorry you were hurt.
Author Groupie Posted May 23, 2006 Author Posted May 23, 2006 3 months. A short time, but we had plans together. It was something really special to me. It wasn't an online relationship. I met him down there and we continued our relationship by phone and we also visitied each other.
littlekitty Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 What a bastard eh?! I can only say I'm sorry you've been hurt. I can't recommend revenge. If I were you I'd sit back and wait for Kama to work its magic. He'll get his, sometime. How did you find out about his other life? I bet it was a shock. He must have been working hard to keep two lives going.
Author Groupie Posted May 23, 2006 Author Posted May 23, 2006 Yeah, thats what people have been saying to me. 'Don't get revenge, people like that don't get away with doing that to others...he'll get whats coming to him one day'. His fiance found e-mails from me and she suspected something. So I thought I was talking to me boyfriend online one day...and he told me he had a fiance. I was in utter shock...I said to him to stay out of my life. But then it came up 'This is atcually his fiance, please give me your number...I need to speak to you' So we spoke on the phone. We both broke down. She went back to him. Thank you for your kind words
littlekitty Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 More fool her for taking him back I say!! She'll probably end up hurt again. At least you know she knows the truth, so I doubt his life is peachy right now. Hopefully it will get worse! Well stick around hon, there's plenty of people here with kind words, and people to chat to about all sorts! We're quite a nice bunch actually! On the bright side, at least you found out sooner than later. I know it hurts now, but think how long it could have gone out, and much more you might have invested. Lucky save...!
Author Groupie Posted May 23, 2006 Author Posted May 23, 2006 Yeah I think I'll stick around seems like a nice place! And yeah I'm definately glad I found out now. I don't think I could cope if it was later on. Just thinking of the feelings I have for him now, and how much they would probably continue to grow if I didn't know.
Spiderman Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 I want revenge on him. I want him to feel my hurt. Does anyone have any ideas? Please don't tell me it's wrong to want revenge...I need to do this. I'm so angry and so lost right now. 'Groupie' sorry to here about your dirty, lying snake of an ex' His fiancé' may have gone back but he'll get his comeuppance sooner or later... Spidey's possible revenge idea's :- 1 - Place a singles ad with your ex's phone number in newspapers, magazines and websites, preferably of the 'gay' origin.. 2 - Subscribe your ex to every form of junk mail you can lay your hands on, the more embarrassing the better... 3- Subscribe your ex to all sorts of weird sex magazines but send them to his neighbour's... 4 - The Yellow Pages. Set up an appointment with every company in there for (example) Wednesday morning at about 10:00. Give yourself a few days to do it all and get all the appointment as close together as you can. You can probably see what's going to happen. Wednesday morning at 10:00 his street is going to be totally filled up with a truck from every business in the entire area. From exterminators to furnace repair to roofing estimates, they'll all be there asking for your ex. (Try to make sure he's going to be home when they come.) 4 - A Hit man. 5 - Kidnap his pet & threaten to mail small pieces of it to him. *note* 'Pet' can be replaced with Fiancé, Mum, Nan, whatever is easier.. 6 - If all else fails opt for 'Castration' ( harsh but fair ) Hope I've helped
lone56wolf Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Revenge only begets more revenge. Nobody wins. The seeds of distrust are already sown. Let them grow into the vine that will strangle him. Wolf
Sisty Posted May 24, 2006 Posted May 24, 2006 I am sorry about your breakup...it hurts...I know....Just reading SPIDERMANS revenge suggestions made ME feel SO MUCH BETTER after my recent breakup. I think we all have thoughts of revenge when our loved one slams the door in our face for one reason or another but in time it will get better...just give it time..try not to think about it or get into conversations with others about it..when I do I just push myself back into that hole I was in...... so better to leave it be..move on and for me...keep some pride and dignity.....later on you will be glad you did...Revenge solves nothing...only possibly future regrets.....good luck hon.......
Spiderman Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Just to clarify, my above suggestions were only meant in jest! On a serious note I tend to agree with 'lone56wolf' "Revenge only begets more revenge. Nobody wins." Take LK's advice and 'wait for Kama to work its magic.'
Guest Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 I just found out that my boyfriend has a fiance. They have been together 2 years and have just bought a house together. The reason that I didn't figure this out is because he lives in London and I live in Scotland. I want revenge on him. I want him to feel my hurt. Does anyone have any ideas? Please don't tell me it's wrong to want revenge...I need to do this. I'm so angry and so lost right now. The best revenge is living well. But you might want to do his fiancee a favour and inform her that her husband-to-be has had a woman on the side for the last 2 years. At least then she'll know he's a lying toe-rag, and can decide whether or not to marry him based on this information.
Author Groupie Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 You know what, revenge isn't the answer. I wrote this when I was angry. Now I've gathered my thoughts...I'm not going to waste anymore time on him. He's get what is coming to him one day and I need to move on. Atcually got a date tonight heh.
Spiderman Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 You know what, revenge isn't the answer. I wrote this when I was angry. Now I've gathered my thoughts...I'm not going to waste anymore time on him. He's get what is coming to him one day and I need to move on. Atcually got a date tonight heh. Good on ya! I'll send him some bad Spidey vibes! Just make sure you get some background info on this new guy!
Author Groupie Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 Good on ya! I'll send him some bad Spidey vibes! Just make sure you get some background info on this new guy! Haha thanks Yeah I've known this guy for years so safe to say he's no background histroy I should know about!
Spiderman Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 I'll keep my fingers crossed it all goes well for you
Spiderman Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Ah, but revenge can be so f'ing FUNNY if you do it right! Check this out: http://www.fecalgram.com 100% natural, freshly squeezed, human-made turds !! OMG what sort of person would send such a thing! Now where's my boss's home address?
ronnieromance Posted May 25, 2006 Posted May 25, 2006 Groupie, I would throw his info up on dontdatehimgirl.com Then I would meet some new folks and forget about him as quick as possibel. But, I have a penis and I'm straight, so you'll have to be the one to do this. Try webdate. You can meet tons of great people. There are a lot in the UK, also -R-
Guest Posted May 27, 2006 Posted May 27, 2006 If u want revenge then u should take some action u shouldnt let the one that u thought was the one go and be happy with someone u no will be hurt ..bcuz he could be doing this with so many ppl...so make his life miserable I just found out that my boyfriend has a fiance. They have been together 2 years and have just bought a house together. The reason that I didn't figure this out is because he lives in London and I live in Scotland. I want revenge on him. I want him to feel my hurt. Does anyone have any ideas? Please don't tell me it's wrong to want revenge...I need to do this. I'm so angry and so lost right now.
Pantero Posted May 28, 2006 Posted May 28, 2006 Sorry to hear. Maybe one day his d-ck will spontaneously shrivel up and fall in the toilet.
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