DarkDwarf Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Hi, I am new here. I belong to a place called loveforum.net which is a lot like this place. Anyway I thought i would share this thing because like most people I need some help. I recently asked out a girl. I was sorta transitioning from relationships. Anyway she rejected me so I am sorta back in square 1. Since the begining of the school year I have liked this girl names chloe. I have gone out with a lot of different girls this year, but after those relationships I seem to come back to liking this girl. I am not sure if I could ever get the guts I need to ask her out, but I will worry about that when I feel I have made enough progress to ask her out. Normally I am really good at this kind of stuff, but everytime I come near this girl my knees get week. Throughout the course of the year I haven't talked to her a lot, but recently I have started to talk to her on a day to day basis, but I don't really know what to do. Help Please!!!
Chloe89 Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 haha, thats so kewl! my name is chloe too. but neway, it sounds like you realli like this gurl. if you seriously cant stop thinking about her, you have to do sumthing. itz a risk, but itz worth being w/ her, rite? if she seems interested now (im not talken about when she rejected you b4), flirt w/ her till youre ready to make the first move n ask her out. but if she doesnt seem interested at all, i think you should be nice to her n maybe flirt w/ her a little but dont overdo it...dont make eye contact w/ her more than once a day (unless youre talking, obviously), dont approach her very often, n be very subtle. bc if she constantly catches you staring at her or if youre constantly flirting w/ her it mite be a big turn-off for her, n she mite think youre a pathetic stalker or sumthin. besides, she'll probally find your suddenly being distant mysterious. gurls love mystery.. i hope everything works out for you
phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 KEWL? Darkdwarf, I'm a little confused about your situation. The Chloe girl...did she reject you? Or was that a different girl? If she's a different girl, I think you should just ask her out. I know being nervous makes it tough, but you talk to her on a daily basis so you know she doesn't mind you being around.
Author DarkDwarf Posted May 23, 2006 Author Posted May 23, 2006 No. Chloe didn't reject me. But the problem is her best friend did. So I don't know whats going to happen. :sigh:
phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Hmm. Well what's your relationship to the best friend? Were you guys real close also? And why did she reject you? Sometimes girls won't go out with someone because their girlfriend is interested in them. I think it's an awkward situation. But I think if you really like this girl you should still ask her out. And if the best friend isn't interested in you I don't see why she would have a problem with you two dating.
Guest Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Well, I think me and her best friend(The girl that rejected me) are still friends. It is a little tense at the moment though. I'm not a close friends with chloe as I still am/was with the girl that rejected me. The girl that rejected me was named Sarah (so that this isn't complicated). Sarah says she rejected me becuase she didn't like me. I dunno though.
Author DarkDwarf Posted May 23, 2006 Author Posted May 23, 2006 Well, I think me and her best friend(The girl that rejected me) are still friends. It is a little tense at the moment though. I'm not a close friends with chloe as I still am/was with the girl that rejected me. The girl that rejected me was named Sarah (so that this isn't complicated). Sarah says she rejected me becuase she didn't like me. I dunno though.
phyrespryte Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 I guess Sarah really isn't an issue. I'm not sure. I've never had that happen to me so I don't know if I'd be bothered. I don't think I'd care. But it's hard to say when you've never experienced it. I guess what it boils down to is what do you worry about more? Keeping your friendship with Chloe or spending your life wondering what could've happened? You'll never know what will happen if you don't ask her out. But that might not be something that you need right now. Are you sure you want to go there?
Author DarkDwarf Posted May 24, 2006 Author Posted May 24, 2006 Hmm... I know that she hated me earlier this year, but these days I don't think she does. I used to be really annoying in the begining of the year. Summers coming in 11 school days. Jeez this is tough. I'm really not sure what to do.
Author DarkDwarf Posted May 25, 2006 Author Posted May 25, 2006 I wouldn't normally do this, but like said above this girl is special. I just want to know if you guys think she likes me. Here are somethings that have happened recently. 1. She used to never talk to me. 2. When we were doing a drama project (a play) she had to grab my arm and she held it for long past when she was supposed to let go. 3. I keep seeing her look at me out of the corner of my eye. Its not just these three, but they all fall into the same category.
Author DarkDwarf Posted May 26, 2006 Author Posted May 26, 2006 Well... Here goes nothing. My friend says that sometimes you have to ask a girl out and get rejected before you can get her off my mind. Either I wimp out, get a no, or get a yes. *Holding Breath*... *Jumping*
Author DarkDwarf Posted June 10, 2006 Author Posted June 10, 2006 Crash and Burn. Shes too good for me. Good News: I found someone i like better... but thats questionable. (Dating/Questionable Relationship)
Guest Posted June 13, 2006 Posted June 13, 2006 oh how I miss the simplicity of grade school... One crush doesn't work out, onto the next one... a new soulmate every weekend, or at least after every school dance. Don't take any of this too seriously, just have some fun, once you get out into the "real world" things become much more complex.
phyrespryte Posted June 15, 2006 Posted June 15, 2006 Don't take any of this too seriously, just have some fun, once you get out into the "real world" things become much more complex. More complex? Still seems like the same garbage to me. Sorry that things didn't work out with her DarkDwarf, but glad to hear that you've met someone else.
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