maedayvis Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 I met this great guy and we really hit it off. We went out a couple of times and things progressed quickly! He called me every day after we went out and was really cool, when BAM! I was smothering him, and calling all the time, and he just wants to be friends. I have a lot on my plate right now and he told me I needed to focus on that and not worry about him. He wants to be freinds, but calls every night, always after midnight. What the hay am I supposed to do? Tell him to kiss off, try to be a friend, or wait to break through the tough exterior that he has put up. Our other problem is that he is now six hours away. Any thoughts?
agnf666 Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 I think I would totally give up on him. He told you that you were basically smothering him, so he is not looking for that kind of commitment right now. I would be friends with him but wouldn't date him. Trust me it's a waste of time.
catgirl1927 Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 Tell him friends don't call after midnight. That's just rude.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 Tell him friends don't call after midnight. That's just rude. If some guy, whether I was dating him or not, kept calling me past midnight, I would be pissed!! He tells you that you are calling him too much and smothering him, yet calls you every day???? I don't think this guy knows what the hell he wants. You should seriously tell him to f*** off and find someone a bit more stable
Walk Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Tell him friends don't call after midnight. That's just rude. I don't know if that was meant to be funny, but I laughed. Too cute. I agree... the man is confused, and you aren't the one to save him. Let him go be confusing some where else, and preferrable at a more reasonable time.
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