Guest Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 I'm in a really complicated problem right now. Who isn't these days. I was with this guy for five and a half months. We had a lot of memories, a lot of firsts.. if you know what I mean haha. Anyways, five and half months come, he dumps me, leaves me to cry for 6 weeks, alone and single. 6 weeks pass, i've sort of moved on, and by now I like this OTHER guy.. but I'm not sure he likes me back. He invited me to chill with him and his friends a few times, and he made out with me one night. But, suddenly, my ex comes back into the picture. He starts saying how much he still loves me, how hes sorry it took him six weeks of being a jerk to realize how much he wants me back. So I begin chilling with him again. And we make out a few times. So by this point I'm making out with two different guys... one I know wants me back, the other I'm not sure if he likes me, or if he's just looking for friends with benefits. But ooh wait it gets better.... Me and the new guy end up sleeping together. He loses his virginty to me. By now I'm still confused, does he want me or just want friends with benefits?? So then I made a promise to myself, not to do anything more with my ex until I sort out these feelings, I dont want to be fooling around with two guys at the same time ! Then me and my ex sleep together. Not so great. I feel so.. ugh. Dirty. Neither guys know about each other. I feel so sorry, I regret this so much. Now I'm not at all sure what to do, even though I'm pretty sure I've lied to my ex way too much to get back into a new relationship.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 Sounds like you just need to chill. You are getting yourself caught up in an unhealthy cycle. Sounds to me like your ex isn't for you. If someone dumped me, left me for almost 2 months, then tried to weasle his way back in my life, I would close my doors. That isn't being very respectful of him. As for the other guy, maybe you should ask him what it is he wants from the relationship and then decide what to do next
Craig Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 As for the other guy' date=' maybe you should ask him what it is he wants from the relationship and then decide what to do next[/quote'] What a concept! Tim'sAngel you are a genius!!! I mean it. The script to be delivered in a moment of light fun conversation is "what do you want from me?" said with a smile on your face and then shut up until he says something. It works.
Walk Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 I'd ditch the ex. 6 weeks meant he had to go find out if this other girl and him would work out. They didn't, so he came sniffing around your garden again. I wouldn't trust his "love" as far as you could throw him. 6 weeks is too long in my book.
catgirl1927 Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 I'd ditch the ex. 6 weeks meant he had to go find out if this other girl and him would work out. They didn't, so he came sniffing around your garden again. I wouldn't trust his "love" as far as you could throw him. 6 weeks is too long in my book. Oooo, I so agree with this.
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