SexGoddess Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 Do you miss sex with your LDR partner? I may have the answer: Have you tried phone sex yet? I know this may sound wierd, but don't say it's wierd until you've tried it! I personally think it is a great thing for couples in LDR's to do b/c you get close to eacother when you're not having sex, & it also may keep the two of you from cheating on one another by having sex with someone else b/c you feel like you can't wait for your gf/bf to be with you. So try it out, I know it may sound strange! But this can be a great thing for couples..and sometimes, it may not be the right thing but you can't say it's not, til u try. Example: Men can arouse themselves by playing with their penis; women can use their finger to get turned on. Tell eachother what it feels like & what you would be doing to them if they were there. Now go have fun! Questions? Comments? Go ahead and ask me!
leopardprint Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 Well put! My SO and I have been in an LDR for two years, and we have phone sex, and webcam sex when we're away from each other and not together to have the real thing.
Blind Illusion Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 It's also a great way to share fantasies and you get closer that way also. Then , just talking about these fantasies can be the start of great phone sex.
kitkat826 Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 My bf lives just 10 minutes away and we have done it a handful of times on those nights where we're horny. At first I shy about talking dirty, but was surprised at how easy it came out once I got comfortable. Tip for the newbies: If you're nervous and don't know what to say, just find various ways to repeat the words "c**k" and "big" in the same sentence multiple times. My only problem with phone sex now is not being able to concentrate on my actions while having to talk at the same time. Maybe with practice I'll get better.
caring guy Posted June 2, 2006 Posted June 2, 2006 I am in England & my gf is in Spain, we do role plays like i'm her proffesor & she's my student in class & she's in detention for being late & she talks to me in her sexy Spanish accent. She tells me that she hopes i like her uniform & things like that & vica versa. It's gets hot & we love it. I still miss her huggs though & wander when we will be together, afterall we both are studying in our seperate countrys. How long have anyone been in a LDR & then got together permanently? cg
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