JerkysBabe Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 my boyfriend and i have been dating for just over a year now. We both love each other to bits, and we both have confided in each other that we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other, have children together and all the rest that comes with living happily ever after. I am always over his house, I'm there prolly 4 nights a week, and the only reason i'm at my place is either because i have work or uni the next day. I have been feeling for the past few weeks, that i am ready to move in with him. However, i'm pretty sure that he's not ready, as when we met he was broken up with his ex-girlfriend, but she was still living with him, and his ex became very unstable (to the point where she physically attacked him), and i think hes afraid of what might happen. My question is - how can i approach this sensitive discussion without freaking my boyfriend out?
MadDog Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 You said you're pretty sure he's not ready for you to move in together. What makes you think that? It's always good to communicate though and asking him how he feels about the topic of moving in together won't hurt.
tikigods Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 you can always test the waters and ask him what he thinks about you two eventually living together and gage his reaction and then go from there
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