kontiki Posted May 21, 2006 Posted May 21, 2006 ok heres an unanswerable question whats the best way to deal with a younger girl who you know has insecurities which include, feeling like they need to make out with / or hook up with someone at a party once theyve become drunk....she even explained this to me. She says that its been engrained in her throughout high school. So basically when she gets drunk at a party she says she needs to satisfy her own idea of herself as being cute/hot/whatever by just finding someone to make out with or hook up with because it makes her feel like shes desirable or something........ what????? I respect the fact that she told me this stuff, but has anyone ever heard of something like this? She said she just didn't want me to be hurt if something like this were to happen later on down the road. So anyways, why are girls / women rarely content with what they have? Why do they feel the urge that theres always something better for them? Is this some sort of instinctual thing that they deal with? Or why is it easier for men to realize what they have? Is it a matter of how fast women realize what they have is all they need? blah blah blah
MadDog Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 The best way to deal with her is to have fun with her but don't get your emotions invested in her (e.g. don't have a serious relationship with her.)
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