Bohdi10 Posted May 21, 2006 Posted May 21, 2006 I was dating my girlfriend for 9 months when she decided to break up with me over the phone. She said she still wanted to talk to me because she cared about me but she just didn't want to be in a relationship. We argued on the phone for a week because I wanted the relationship and she didn't. I haven't talked to her in 9 days. I haven't called her, emailed her or text messaged her. Is she going to ever call me? Does she think about me and wonder why I haven't called? Those are the things that are going through my head. Is it possible to be with someone for 9 months and then just forget about them all together one day and never think about them or want to talk to them?
Brittanyjean06 Posted May 21, 2006 Posted May 21, 2006 Yes it is possibly, I know your going through a hard time and your probaly indenial and just full of hope she will call. But in your matter, the chances are very slim my friend. She dumped you, she might call..she might not Let it be, don't try to contact her don't beg her , the best thing for you to do is do your own thing..I know Its been hard , My ex hasn't talked to me in 9 months, but I don't think that will happen to you It's not that they forget about you, sometimes people will loose feelings and there isn't anything you can do about that, but try to move on
spazgirl Posted May 21, 2006 Posted May 21, 2006 no, she is probably not going to call. it sounds to me like that was her way of trying to let you down easy...make you think there was still some hope...so she could get out and still seem like the good guy, when in actuality she probably just wants it to be over-period. i've had this happen to me in the past so i speak from experience. sorry to be so blunt.
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