Guest Posted May 21, 2006 Posted May 21, 2006 Girlfriend and I had a very very close relationship. She wrote cards to me with the most wonderful meanings in them. We had a 2-3 week rough period. Thought we had basically finally sorted it out. Then she just went funny. I've found out she'd met someone. They must have clicked damn well, coz I don't otherwise comprehenjd how she could change over to him so fast. Even after we split she sent me messages saying she missed me. That eventually stopped. I found out about the new boy by talking to friends, and then just the other day I saw them together. I confronted her, expressed my dissapointment and walked away. I decided, I didn't want to end up hating her and wanted to keep my door open as a friend, so wrote her a card expressing just that, and good luck in life etc. She then responded by saying "don't ever contact me again!" I'm broken, feel kicked in the teeth. I fail so much to understand this. She is SUCH a lovely girl full of morals and so lovely natured. This just isn't how I know her. I was kind of hoping for a "sorry it ended this way and thanks for the card. I wont be contacting her again, not for many many months anyway. Can't love someone that has been so nasty. Can anyone help me understand why she has switched to being this horrible person to me? PS: the morning before i caught her with the new guy, out of the blue (hadn't talked in a week as weren't supposed to be) she sent me a phone message saying "have you heard the song by James Blunt, Goodbye my lover, its just like what we've been through" What the hell?!?!?! Confused. Just want to move on but can't stop thinkin about it coz I cannot understand the fast change from loving me so much to jumpin in the deep end with another guy. Also, does she mean the bad words she says? help ) :
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