Guest Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Hello... this post is gonna be kinda weird cuz of everything thats been going on. I was planning to go to visit a friend and she introduced me to her friends online so that i would know them before i got to her town. This is where I met "joe", online, and immediately knew i liked him. He was really nice, conversational, and cute! This was on oct 2005. We talked for 2 months until i arrived, not only online but he called me and i called him (pretty expensive phone bills considering i live in south america and he lives in canada).once i got there we clicked. we started dating for my whole 3-week vacation, it was amazing!when i left, we continued talking in a boyfriend-girlfriend way, this considering im moving to his home town this coming july 2006. but on the first week of march he broke up w me saying he couldnt handle the long distance anymore, that he didnt want to blow it before i got there because he considered we could have a really good relationship once i got there. We kept on talking online and over the phone, everything was nice but I knew that i wasnt his girlfriend anymore at least until I moved up there. This was all good until a week ago I heard from my friend that he was dating a girl that lives in Europe. She's getting to Canada next week and staying there for the whole summer. He didnt tell me anything about it until I asked, and he keeps saying he's not dating her when I know he is (you dont get visits from Europeans just because, and my friend wouldnt lie to me). I arrive at the end of the summer and I know shell be gone when i get there. Apart from all that, he's still jealous of the guys i hang out with and keeps telling me he likes to be my friend (but doesnt act like one). What am I supposed to do??? I tried the no contact thing you all talk about and it doesnt work because when I get a call from him my caller id doesnt say its him but an unknown number, who can be anyone (and just living several miles apart makes up a whole new meaning of no contact). Whenever we talk about my moving there he implies he would like to try things out, but after all this, what should i do? how should i act? how do you treat a player when you know he's playing with you??? HELP!!!
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