th0masbh Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 im 14 and there is this girl i like, shes kinda hyper and cute. im her good friend already ( #6 on her myspace) and its only been about a month, so i think i got being a friend down. But i dont know how to get her to notice me, im not bad looking but kinda skinny ( 117lbs and 5'8) but i am still very athletic ( im in wrestling and track) i dont need help with dating her but i need help just getting the first date started. im in the "popular" crowd and well liked by everybody, but i am known as the funny guy ( i am the master of chuck norris jokes) and im not known for getting with with girls ( i am just all their friends) and i think she wouldnt take me seriously. she has lots of male friends from different schools that i dont know, and she has dated a lot of guys, but she isnt easy or anything. but i dont want to be overshadowed or anything. can anyone help me?
Vertex Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 "but i am known as the funny guy ( i am the master of chuck norris jokes) " Please, please, please, PLEASE let those Chuck Norris jokes die
RecordProducer Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Sing loud when you walk by, fart, burp, jump, walk backwards, laugh like crazy, smack her ass when she least expects... The best people are not noticable. But you want her to notice you? Talk to her! Duh! (It's hard for someone to NOT notice you when you talk to them. )
Guest Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 there is this guy who is jail i messed with him for 8 months before then and i really care about him i even want to give birth to his child but i had sex with his uncle what should i do?
Alexandra-Girl Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 You're 14! Young, but that's okay. I am assuming you are looking for some real advice. First, your on her myspace. This is a good start. You have a headway that others don't have. Keep talking to her, but I suggest you don't talk about other guys with her. You don't want to become her sounding board if you like her. If she lives around you and you have the opportunity to do something with her, then ask her out. Don't say "Hey, would you go on a date with me?". I suggest asking her to something that is less date-ish at first, so you can get to know her better. It's summer time and the weather is great, so try asking her to join you for something cold like ice-cream. Don't take her to a mall because you might run into her friends who would steal your time together. While out you can make her laugh and create a connection. Who knows, maybe she is not the person you want to be with once it's just the two of you. Let us know how it goes, Alexandra
lance.dark Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Here's something that works very well and she won't think you're such a "goof" all the time(I'm a similar type of person). Just walk up to her sometime soon when she's alone and talk to her about something she likes to do. Not just "How is it going?" but if she's on a sports team or does something special ask her a personal question about that. Make sure it's a serious question and not just sarcasm or a joke. Then just trust your instincts and see where it goes from there. The hardest part is actually going up to her and initiating the conversation. Once it goes from there, if it feels natural and right, talk to her some more. If you get good feedback it shows she's interested otherwise I would try it again, maybe wait a day or two. If she continually just looks uninterested, it's probably not going to work out, although you might as well ask her out, what do you have to lose? Again, if it feels natural and you become more relaxed as the conversation goes on, then good. Just trust your instincts young skywalker.
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