timidity99 Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Is it ever ok to dump somebody as a tool to get revenge on them for hurting you?
RecordProducer Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Is it ever ok to dump somebody as a tool to get revenge on them for hurting you?Yes. When your partner hurts you badly, you ditch them to show that their behavior is unacceptable even if you plan to get back together with them later. Dumping them will teach them a lesson about how to (not) treat you and make them beg for your forgiveness. This goes for huge things such as cheating, physical abuse, etc. However if you just had an argument and things are not your way so you're disappointed, breaking up can make them feel insecure about the relationship. The whole situation will acquire a new, much bigger dimension and it will only distract your partner's attention off the real problem.
Jessie61 Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Is it ever ok to dump somebody as a tool to get revenge on them for hurting you? Of course it is. But also take into account the possibility that the other person may not come back to you, so perhaps this method should be used sparingly and in the right situations?
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