Guest Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 ok so it's been a few months. we broke up and i was crushed. and things continued off and on til march. so i've given it some time to try and move on (i've dated around...but didn't find anyone special) and to let him have his space and the truth is...i still want him back. i honestly have realized what i was doing that pushed him away and i really think this time apart has helped me to grow up and become more independent. i haven't seen him since march because i have been in another city. now i am back in the same town with him and would love to at least see him. not expecting anything (although hoping). but i just want to know...could there still be something there? how should i go about doing this? should i just call him up and see if he wants to get lunch sometime? i honestly don't even know if he's seeing someone else. should i send him a casual email and just see if he wants to get together? he broke up with me, that's the catch. is it even realistic to think that i could get him back? if he still missed me, wouldn't he have tried to get a hold of me?
BeHappy Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Why did you guys break up in the first place? I think you should wait until he calls you, because the more you call, aim or email him, you are pushing him away. You can't force him to take you back. If he wants to, he will know how to find you.
teressa0397 Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 ok so it's been a few months. we broke up and i was crushed. and things continued off and on til march. so i've given it some time to try and move on (i've dated around...but didn't find anyone special) and to let him have his space and the truth is...i still want him back. i honestly have realized what i was doing that pushed him away and i really think this time apart has helped me to grow up and become more independent. i haven't seen him since march because i have been in another city. now i am back in the same town with him and would love to at least see him. not expecting anything (although hoping). but i just want to know...could there still be something there? how should i go about doing this? should i just call him up and see if he wants to get lunch sometime? i honestly don't even know if he's seeing someone else. should i send him a casual email and just see if he wants to get together? he broke up with me, that's the catch. is it even realistic to think that i could get him back? if he still missed me, wouldn't he have tried to get a hold of me? I'am with behappy . Dont E-mail him or call him give him time to miss you. if he wants to get in touch with you he will. if not go on with your life because he is.
mare01 Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Take it from someone who knows and knows exactly how you feel. He broke up with you for a reason and he would get ahold of you if he wanted to. But the question is..do you really want to go back there. I too miss someone terribly but I learned the hard way that calling and emailing him when his life is moving forward doesn't work. It's painful but you'll get through it. It takes time..
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