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I have gotten ALOT OF hang ups the past 2 weeks , calling hanging up that won't stop

 

Would ex's actually do that to postpone your healing process?

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if theyre immature and psycho...yea

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yes, Ex's do pull these childish pranks. My ex gf who cheated and dumped me pranks me all the time despite her having new boyfriends (now a long term one), Ex's especially like to hurt you when they hear that you are moving on. My ex usually tends to prank me when she hears that I am interested in a new girl, something good happens to me, my birthday, and other occassions to bring me down. Dont pay attention to these stupid attempts of them trying to hurt you, i let my ex run my life and hurt me wayyy too much since she first dumped me. She had even gone as far as trying to get back together with me, then cheating on me just to prove she had control. Just be strong and try to find a new person because your ex is too immature and selfish if they only care about themselves. The ex is just trying to control your life to make himself happy

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And my ex would do something like that

 

Now how did you discover it was your ex?

 

I broke contact ( 8 months of nc) to tell him well if this is you, you should stop because I am going to get this call traced if you don't, personally it put set backs, but they haven't called since I said that

 

thanks for your advice, that made me stronger in a way... because I

m sure after not talking to him for a long time, he is discovering I am moving on....BASTARDS!

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I broke contact ( 8 months of nc) to tell him well if this is you, you should stop

 

Have you thought about if it wasn't him ?? think about how silly you will look contacting him after 8 months..

 

Please don't continue to contact him anymore

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Yes they would.

 

Even some goofy friends do this.

 

I remember calling her work place once just to hear her voicemail voice when I was younger like 21 :p. and I remember an ex doing the same to me. Calling my VM to hear mine.

 

Caller ID is something I suggest if there are random hangups. Helps with the choice of calls to accept. Reduces the possibility of "friendly fire" or accusations.

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Peanut/Brit I'm sorry you contacted your ex!! did he reply?

 

It probably isn't him, I get lots of these calls too, they are actually call centres! My buddy works in a telemarketing office, and they have computer systems that will call say 20 numbers at once, the first one that picks up will be transferred to the salesman so he can give you his sale-pitch, the other 19 calls will then be just silent when answered!

 

This is becoming more and more common as it stops them wasting time listening to ringing, despite being very annoying!

 

Its probably just that, not your ex. :o

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Or of course he didn't reply!

 

Well none of the calls I get happen to other people, I understand some hang ups every now and than...but this was defently intentionlly and verizon woulden't hand out my cell!

 

You know even if it was him, it wouldent matter choklatboy, because I'm trying to move on the best I can and realizing this is slowing my healing process, well I'm goin to have to try harder

 

calling 5 times repeidily and each time literally hanging up or me waiting to here a voice, the times just don't match right to telemarkters.

 

Thanks for your input though, I'm not gonna dwell on the private calls they've stopped and if they start up again I will get the number changed

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Or it could be the ex. I did that a few times to my exbf because I was so sad I wanted to hear his voice, at the very list. Psycho, I know.

 

I stopped because once I called really late and he answer and I was quiet . . . LOL! But then he said: "B . . . " (my name) very solemnly, to the point where it sounded sad. I stayed on the line to not make it obvious, waiting for him to hang up, but he wouldn't so I eventually just did.

 

I called few more time after that so kind of make it seem like it wasn't me, since it would have seemed obvious if the calls had stopped suddendly after him saying my name.

 

But, does this really do anything on their end, though? Doesn't it just bug them more than bring them down? *shrug

 

He did that to me a few times, too not that long ago. I traced the call right away because I had a feeling it was his. Turned out it was. I asked them to unblock that number whenever the call was made, and it was, so I always knew it was him. Last time he did this I answered and pretended to be laughing and said, "Haha, hold on, Joe, ha, hello?"

 

What a show. Stupid Joe Blow. Sigh.

 

I'm sure I'm not the only psycho, so yeah, they would do this just to mess around with your head.

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I've thought about it clearly if it wasn't my ex, but I have this feeling inside

 

and I was telling me self, I bet hes out of town away from his gf, and um well he was out of town away from her, and as soon as he got back to her ....they stopped

 

It could be just concuidences I know that, but I've hounded everyone, and its pretty evident of why they would be calling, an ex, a person who doesn't like me, blahbalhahl Yeah I probaly did look silly, but I ment what I said when i sent it to him..and wasn't waiting around for a text from him...so I don't feel stupid and thats what matters he can think whatever he wants

 

I don't care

 

Now It's one thing to call someone and want to hear their voice, but it's another thing to intentinlly want to mess around with their head, I would never do that never even thought about it

 

Oh well we all get through it, and I'm doing fine :) thanks for everyones in put didn't think id get more responses on this...

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I was actually replying to the OP who was asking if it could be the ex. I think it may be because some exs are really psycho.

 

All in all, before the OP asserts it's the ex, he should verify the phone number.

 

Didn't mean to sound rude or anything, Brit. :(

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You didn't sound rude! its fine

 

ahha

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I was actually replying to the OP who was asking if it could be the ex. I think it may be because some exs are really psycho.

 

All in all, before the OP asserts it's the ex, he should verify the phone number.

 

Didn't mean to sound rude or anything, Brit. :(

 

Brit IS peanut/the op. Why do you have two accounts Brit?! :confused:

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oh crap, I didn't even notice that

 

Honestly I got really paranoid about someone I know reading my posts, I don't want any one to think I am hurting this much ( in the past ) so the posts that I threads about my ex I will post on peanut head

 

and the advice I give on brittjean..

 

Sorry guys I sometimes don't even realize Im signing in to a different name...

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