immortalechoes Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 My friend has a girlfriend who he has been with for a long time(she even moved with him from PA). Me and here have been hanging out alot lately sometimes with Kurt(her boyfriend) sometims without. I know she is a really big flirt and so does Kurt. Lately what would be considered flirting has been going a little bit further. I liked her but Kurt is my friend so i never acted on it. Tonight she kissed me and i dont know what to do. please help
guitar71 Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 if the guy is your friend you should cut her off 100% - otherwise you are stabbing him in the back - no question.
GuestGirl Posted June 6, 2006 Posted June 6, 2006 Be a friend. CUT HER OFF 100%. Think of it the other way around, would you really want this for yourself if you were your friend? Also, lets just assume you like her as well... what if she does the same to you in the future? You don't like her much now so you may not care, but what if you turn to love her. Cut all ties NOW that you know her true character. SIMPLY TERRIBLE. *If you feel you friend should know about this, you should mention it to him. He shouldn't be surprised from what you said*
pink_butter2003 Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 put an end to this flirting immediately if you want to keep your friend. this girl apparently has very loose morals and cannot be trusted. i would avoid her as much as possible and if your friend bugs you about why you are avoiding her, then maybe you should tell him that she came onto you! shame on her for doing this while her boyfriend (your friend) trusts her. this just shows how much respect and love she has for him (NONE). i think she is so immature that she is only using him for physical needs or whatever because if she was mature enough, she would know that being in a relationship means trusting each other to act appropriately toward other people whether or not the boyfriend/girlfriend is around! this girl is simply TROUBLE! i feel sorry for your friend for wasting his time on a girl like this. maybe he will bump his head on something one of these days and wake up and choose someone better. learn from this and do not trust such girls too easily.
pink_butter2003 Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 put an end to this flirting immediately if you want to keep your friend. this girl apparently has very loose morals and cannot be trusted. i would avoid her as much as possible and if your friend bugs you about why you are avoiding her, then maybe you should tell him that she came onto you! shame on her for doing this while her boyfriend (your friend) trusts her. this just shows how much respect and love she has for him (NONE). i think she is so immature that she is only using him for physical needs or whatever because if she was mature enough, she would know that being in a relationship means trusting each other to act appropriately toward other people whether or not the boyfriend/girlfriend is around! this girl is simply TROUBLE! i feel sorry for your friend for wasting his time on a girl like this. maybe he will bump his head on something one of these days and wake up and choose someone better. learn from this and do not trust such girls too easily. Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, courage to change the things i can and wisdom to know the difference.
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