Guest Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and have been living together for the past year. We have had our ups and downs but we've always shared this passion for one another. For the last six months I have been getting so annoyed or hurt by the things he does. He is a very nice guy and would never do these things on purpose, but I can't seem to get passed it (i.e. last valentines day he did nothing...no card, no flowers, no nothing!). Every little thing that he does now just seems so horrible! In my mind he just seems so inconsiderate, but then when I confront him about it it seems like he doesn't understand why I am so hurt by his action (or lack of). Because "talking" doesn't seem to work with him, I have resorted to sarcasim. Everytime I get mad I just start spouting out mean sarcastic comments about how he is so horrible...I don't think he deserves this, but then again I don't think I deserve his negligence. Am I being to harsh or do I try a different approach. All of this stress has turned me into an evil and depressed person and I don't know resolve his bad habbits or my own. Do we breakup? Can I change him? Do I just need to chill out?
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