nice guy444 Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 The other day I ran in to my ex girl friend whom i went out with for over a year, and who cheated on me. I ran in to her the first day I was home from college, and the day before my birthday (nice early bday gift huh) I was on my daily run and she just so happened to be running the same route as me. She spotted me, stopped, smiled and tried to talk to me, but instead of me talking to her i just kept on running without really aknowedging her. I didnt make any attempt to talk to her after all the horrible things she said to me, her cheating on me, and for all the childish pranks she has pulled on me in recent months. Usually I am the kid who talks to everyone and is known as the guy who doesnt hold grudges. But this time i couldnt help myself and decided to avoid her all together and felt she doesnt deserve any kindness at all. The next day, my birthday that is, i get a prank call, and a prank IM from who i am assumming is my ex trying to wreak my day, and trying to mess up me moving on. This prank mentioned a new girls name of who im interested in but not yet dating, and also mentioned alot of questionable things almost like hitting on me. (keep in mind this girl is the one who cheated on me, ended the relationship, i gave her a second chance when she came back, and she ended the relationship again. She also has a current boyfriend at school) What do I do about this situation since she seems to continue to prank me after all these months? How does she end up with a relationship all the time though she is a disloyal person? How do i always end up on the recieving end of a situation when i have taken many precautions to keep my life away from her? Im tired of being alone always finding the wrong girls (some good ones being scared off by her crazy antics that or rumors she spreads) How do i find a good girl whos willing to give me a chance?
Carlthecoffeeaddict Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 I think you did the right thing by acknowledging that your efforts to talk to her are pointless, and that you are preventing and neutralizing any further efforts by her to ruin your day. You did what I would do in the same situation. DONT GIVE HER THE TIME OF DAY. Clearly her maturity level and respect for you are not what you are and have given her. Why beat yourself for her own inadequacy? If she has to ruin you by perhaps intentionally running into you while jogging, then the next day IM'ing you with bullsh*t pranks, then you have to realize that there are girls who are scum and have no idea how stupid they are. This is just a demonstration that not all girls (pretty or not) are angels. Normal people, when breaking up, usually move on and pursue other relationships, but you need to stop beating yourself up over this bitch because she is clearly one hell of a manipulator if she is ruining the outcome of future relationships. why is she in your business if she broke up with you? why does she get involved with people youre dating?
GB111 Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 I'm a little perplexed by your message title "Did I Do The Right Thing?". Why do you care if you did the right thing? You did the right thing if you want nothing to do with her, which it sounds like you don't (although if you do, I'd strongly reconsider). Without a response even she will get tired of her little games when it doesn't rile you any longer. Just keep ignoring and remember that there is Karma in this world. Her time will come.
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