lostsmile Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 Told you couple days ago that I thought I made a big mistake by telling MM that H and I were having trouble. Well, I decided to just let the dust settle and leave him alone for awhile. Tonight when he drove by on his way home from work, I was outside so I waved to him. He didn't even wave at me! Did I make him that mad? Or do you think that he is just running scared? Or feeling threatened?
enoughisenough Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 I guess he's afraid you were looking to attach to him after your relationship with your husband is over, and he is not looking for that. He only wants you on the side.
RecordProducer Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 I guess he's afraid you were looking to attach to him after your relationship with your husband is over, and he is not looking for that. He only wants you on the side.If what you described is ALL that happened, I would say Enough is right. Why would he be bothered by the fact that you have problems with your husband? He is afraid that he might mean more to you than you to him. This is if he starts ignoring you. But he will probably call you as if nothing happened and give you some explanation about why he didn't wave back.
aloneinthis Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 If what you described is ALL that happened, I would say Enough is right. Why would he be bothered by the fact that you have problems with your husband? He is afraid that he might mean more to you than you to him. This is if he starts ignoring you. But he will probably call you as if nothing happened and give you some explanation about why he didn't wave back. Unfortuantly, I agree too. I tell my OM about my problems with H. He said he would rather me tell him then to keep it inside, he is my support. Then again, I also think he could be scared too.
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