Bballswingr Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I heard/read somewhere a long time ago that if a girl is intrested in you, and you do nothing about it, then they will never completely lose intrest. I forget where i heard or read it but it popped into my head today because im trying to get a girl i missed an opportunity on. So, what does everyone think?
SmoochieFace Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I heard/read somewhere a long time ago that if a girl is intrested in you, and you do nothing about it, then they will never completely lose intrest. I forget where i heard or read it but it popped into my head today because im trying to get a girl i missed an opportunity on. So, what does everyone think? Never heard such a thing but if it's true then it's quite dumb IMO. I'm sure girls will move on and find someone who will reciprocate their interest rather than waste time pining over a dense dude. I could be wrong though.
Author Bballswingr Posted May 18, 2006 Author Posted May 18, 2006 Thats pretty much what i figured too...
ronnieromance Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I heard that if you stand on your head for a few minutes before a weigh-in, you will be lighter because the blood in your body will be going from your head down, and in effect weightless. I also hear soccer moms are typically safe drivers and don't often do things that cause pile-ups. -R-
SmoochieFace Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I heard that if you stand on your head for a few minutes before a weigh-in, you will be lighter because the blood in your body will be going from your head down, and in effect weightless. I also hear soccer moms are typically safe drivers and don't often do things that cause pile-ups. -R- ...
phyrespryte Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I heard/read somewhere a long time ago that if a girl is intrested in you, and you do nothing about it, then they will never completely lose intrest. I forget where i heard or read it but it popped into my head today because im trying to get a girl i missed an opportunity on. So, what does everyone think? I think it's possible. But if she's found someone and she's happy with that person then you're screwed. You got to take advantage of the situation when you can. Sometimes you might get a second chance, but most of the time you don't.
MadDog Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I think the opposite is true and that getting with a girl is normally a limited time offer and if you don't make a move when she's interested, she'll lose interest.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 If I really like someone, chances are I'll never forget about them. I am in a very happy relationship, but that doesn't mean I have just completely forget all my ex's. Now, if one came back to me and asked me back, I'd say "Hell naw!!" It totally depends on the girl.
Jools Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 I suppose it depends on the girl but it isn't totally out of the question to expect that for some girls, if they really liked someone, they would not have a 'window of opportunity' in which the guy has to make a move. However, i also agree with phyrespryte, if you snooze and they find someone else in the mean time then they're not gonna jump ship just because you're now available to them.
ronnieromance Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 Bball, go to laddertheory.com It will expalin all. -R-
Guest Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 I heard/read somewhere a long time ago that if a girl is intrested in you, and you do nothing about it, then they will never completely lose intrest. I forget where i heard or read it but it popped into my head today because im trying to get a girl i missed an opportunity on. So, what does everyone think? I am one of those women who expect courtmanship from a man and If I have flirted with you on so many occasions and you did not take interest or you flirted back to think it would keep my interest until you feel good and ready to ask me out I will not wait forever for you. IF something else good comes alone and has answer to my flirtation you can sure bet your time expired. I pretty much consider if you did not ask then you had no interest or you were weak. So my interest would be lost and I would no longer think of you.
Alexandra-Girl Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 YES THIS IS CORRECT. You have a point. BUT, you have to give a little at some point. When their interest is high, not low. You do not want to come across as stand-offish, or allow them to feel that you don't think they are special. I suggest reading some articles from www.askmen.com in their dating and love section. Women like a challenge. This challenge maintains their interest level. Don't lay your cards out in one round. BUT, do lay them out gradually. Hope this helps, Alexandra.
Outcast Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Women like a challenge. This challenge maintains their interest level. I love it. A woman getting her information about woman from men. Some women like 'a challenge'. Some others find gamesmanship (which is what this is) boring and stupid. There is NO 'all women' rule for anything.
Alexandra-Girl Posted May 21, 2006 Posted May 21, 2006 I love it. A woman getting her information about woman from men. Sorry to disappoint you. This site provides sources that are Pyschologist's and research institutions who spend many years conducting research on the respective topic. Personally, I would rather ponder the text of specialized research results than take what princess Dairy Queen Eve next to me says as the law. It's called research. It is gender neutral. Otherwise, it's mere opinion. Seriously, would you want a plastic surgeon conducting a heart transplant on you? I doubt it. They're not specialized in that field, but let me know how it goes ;=) Have fun, Alexandra.
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