lostsmile Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 My H and I started marriage counseling yesterday. We have been having trouble for years and he finally agreed to counseling when I threatened separation. Everything went really well. We both have good feelings about working it out and staying together. So.... why do I still want the MM and how can I still have such deep feelings for him? Why do I still want to see him?
Jessie61 Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 My H and I started marriage counseling yesterday. We have been having trouble for years and he finally agreed to counseling when I threatened separation. Everything went really well. We both have good feelings about working it out and staying together. So.... why do I still want the MM and how can I still have such deep feelings for him? Why do I still want to see him? Lostsmile, Don't give up just yet... This is early days. Focus on the fact that you are now in counselling and that everything went well yesterday! Focus on the fact that you both still have feelings for each other and want to stay together! If you also make sure that there is NC between yourself and MM, then the rest should fall into place with time and effort. You will be fine... OK?
movinon05 Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 As someone said in another post, you can't just flip a switch and expect your feelings will just go away. It all takes time. Be glad that things are looking up for you and your H and try to concentrate on that. Be glad that it didn't get further than it did. Be glad that your H has come around and wants to work with you. I wish you all the best. Just give it time. Once you see things are better with your H, the feelings will fade away.
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