timidity99 Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I'm reading article on why men love bytches. I must say that I am in that category. I am most attracted to women who are bytchy & controlling. I can probably identify with those articles. For some reason I have no desire to be treated like a king or even as an equal in the relationship. I prefer to be with older women who will make the majority of the decisions. I quickly tend to lose interest in the women who give me alot of freedom. Those kind of relationships are boring. I have yet to find a woman who will physically beat the hell out of me every once in awhile. I'd rather be physically abused than emotionally abused by a woman. Are there any guys out there who are more attracted to bytches or abusive women than you are to angel women? I feel like anything is better than being alone even if it is in an abusive relationship.
BeFree Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I think you have mis-read the article. It's not about physical abuse or even mental. It's about not be available all the time. Most women would not sign up to pyhsically abuse anyone, it's illegal.
Author timidity99 Posted May 18, 2006 Author Posted May 18, 2006 Well in my case I am attracted to abusive women. I would settle for that even if I'm getting offers from women who are good hearted & sincere. I was even a little jealous of the other guy who posted in his thread about his girlfriend punching him in the arm when she gets angry. That is physical abuse but I am attracted to that. If she's not controlling then she's boring to me.
konfuzd Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 First you say you are attracted to abusive women, then you say you'll settle for them... You're contradicting yourself. You need help beyond what anyone here can offer.
allina Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 it's spelled B-I-T-C-H-E-S maybe someone hit you one too many times
johan Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 it's spelled B-I-T-C-H-E-S maybe someone hit you one too many times What a bytch.
Vertex Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 "I'm reading article on why men love bytches. I must say that I am in that category. I am most attracted to women who are bytchy & controlling. I can probably identify with those articles. " I don't think men like bitches who are controlling and abusive, but perhaps independent and upfront/honest? I think there's a main difference here but with a fine line. "For some reason I have no desire to be treated like a king or even as an equal in the relationship. I prefer to be with older women who will make the majority of the decisions. I quickly tend to lose interest in the women who give me alot of freedom. Those kind of relationships are boring. " Why? Are you a masochist or something? To me this sounds like you want someone who will tell you what to do and make the choices for you or perhaps beat you when she doesn't get her way -- to me this sounds like a lazy way to approach a relationship. It isn't healthy to actively seek a relationship without equality or balance, especially to this degree. "I have yet to find a woman who will physically beat the hell out of me every once in awhile. I'd rather be physically abused than emotionally abused by a woman. Are there any guys out there who are more attracted to bytches or abusive women than you are to angel women? I feel like anything is better than being alone even if it is in an abusive relationship." But what you speak of also sounds like an emotional inequality since you find it boring to make decisions. I mean it is understandable to like a fiesty woman for some people, but in a playful way. To want someone to beat the hell out of you is another story... perhaps I am misreading you? I mean for many I don't see how you can bring physical abuse into a relationship without bringing emotional abuse along with it (oftentimes one is a causal indicator of the other). I don't think you will find much luck here if this is what you're after because it is so contradictory and it frankly doesn't make sense and sounds unhealthy. If all else fails go see a dominatrix...
MadDog Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I hate bitches. The second I sense any kind of bitchiness, they're out the door. I really prefer the relaxed/chill personality. A girl who doesn't get all worked up over stuff is hot in my eyes.
ronnieromance Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I think you have mis-read the article. It's not about physical abuse or even mental. It's about not be available all the time. Most women would not sign up to pyhsically abuse anyone, it's illegal. I find it interesting that the reason you give is that it's illegal. I find that law is a bad measuring stick as much of what is legal is morally reprehensible, and there are some things that are illegal despite nrgative impact. But I digress, back to our scheduled program: It's about the chase. It's simple, yet complex. I'm sure it plays out in the bedroom to some extent, as well. -R-
SmoochieFace Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I feel like anything is better than being alone even if it is in an abusive relationship. This is so pathetic...
BeFree Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I find it interesting that the reason you give is that it's illegal. I find that law is a bad measuring stick as much of what is legal is morally reprehensible, and there are some things that are illegal despite nrgative impact. But I digress, back to our scheduled program: It's about the chase. It's simple, yet complex. I'm sure it plays out in the bedroom to some extent, as well. -R- Oh Im sorry, I forget to put in the part where I say. THIS IS A JOKE!
ronnieromance Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 Oh Im sorry, I forget to put in the part where I say. THIS IS A JOKE! I'm sorry too. It wasn't funny. -R-
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