Guest Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Here's the problem I like a guy at work and we got together once but no sex. I do work with him and he has girlfriend but I don't think it's that serious but he still hasn't asked for my number and it's been at least five days. A friend of mine at work who knows him better than I do says that he's playing hard to get how can I do the same because I really like him. Thanks
morftran Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 playing games probably isn't a good first step toward a good relationship. Also, that he has a gf complicates things. Are you good friends with this guy? Maybe you shouldn't get together until you can be friends. If you become better friends and he still plays hard to get he's not worth your time or trouble. Sometimes you gotta just chalk things up to a wild infatuation and recognize it for that. It can be sooo hard getting over infatuations cuz they can feel like the real thing, in fact, I think it's almost harder to get over an infatuation because with the real thing you know a person has flaws, with infatuation the beloved seems perfect. good luck.
JackJack Posted May 22, 2006 Posted May 22, 2006 He has a g/f, its best to not persue anything with him. It doesn't matter how serious it is right now with them. Its probably best to do nothing till he is no longer involved.
typical Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 and he has girlfriend but I don't think it's that serious I bet his GF wouldnt think so...
catgirl1927 Posted May 23, 2006 Posted May 23, 2006 Here's the problem I like a guy at work and we got together once but no sex. I do work with him and he has girlfriend but I don't think it's that serious but he still hasn't asked for my number and it's been at least five days. A friend of mine at work who knows him better than I do says that he's playing hard to get how can I do the same because I really like him. Thanks Wow. I wonder why on earth he's not acting interested?
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