csfong007 Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Do you think men ever say I love you when they really don't mean it? I have been in a relationship for over a year. Sometimes my boyfriend tells me all on his own, but usually, he tells me after I've said it. I don't want him to say it unless he really means it.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Do you think men ever say I love you when they really don't mean it? I have been in a relationship for over a year. Sometimes my boyfriend tells me all on his own, but usually, he tells me after I've said it. I don't want him to say it unless he really means it. Me and my SO have had this conversation. I say I love you alot and he says it back. He kind of has his own way of showing me he loves me instead of always saying it. LIttle things like, he has a studio in the back yard and he will come in from working just to kiss me, then go back out. just little things like that. And I'm fine with that
Skeered Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 I think if you say it you better always mean it...but do I think that sometimes they say it without really thinking about it...yes...however it doesn't mean that they don't mean it persay it just means that they weren't thinking of saying it right then...does that make sense..lol My guy doesn't say it as much as I do but as the above poster said he does other things more often then I do to let me know he loves me and is thinking of me..
Pyro Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Do you think men ever say I love you when they really don't mean it? I have been in a relationship for over a year. Sometimes my boyfriend tells me all on his own, but usually, he tells me after I've said it. I don't want him to say it unless he really means it. I would guess that some guys do say it just to get the girl in bed. Some guys are pathetic, but for the most part, I believe that when we say it, we do mean it from the bottom of our hearts.
Agent M Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Hard to say. My guy has told me a few times that he loves me, but he definately doesn't always act like it. It makes me wonder. I've never said it to him, although there are times when I wondered if I really do love him. I think love is a big word...not to be used lightly. Something I can't personally just throw around. It also depends so much on the guy. Some guys are players, some are genuine. Usually, one can tell.
Curmudgeon Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I say it to my wife every day and I mean it every time I say it. I can't answer for other men.
BeFree Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 Some men are very verbal with this, others say it once in a while. To truly know if a man loves you is in his actions. I knew my SO loved me long before he ever said it. His actions told me. When he finally said it, it was so nice because I knew he meant it from the bottom of his heart. On the other hand if a guy told me he loved me, but acted otherwise, I would know he was a liar and end the relationship.
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