Guest Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 hello all of anyone pleased to give me feedback on this i am currently 19 wanting to start a relationship with a 15 year old i know its illedal i dont care give me feedback??? i really like this girl i am interested to know what everyone else thinks please give feedback quick. Shark
PuppyDogEyes Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 hello all of anyone pleased to give me feedback on this i am currently 19 wanting to start a relationship with a 15 year old i know its illedal i dont care give me feedback??? i really like this girl i am interested to know what everyone else thinks please give feedback quick. My opinion? Leave her alone. I know she's close to your age, but if you really like her so much, wait until she's "legal". It'll keep you out of hot water. - pde.
TeaCooler Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 i know its illedal i dont care give me feedback??? i Shark it's illegal for a reason, whether you care or not. take the risk if you feel you must, but don't ignore the consequences, like jail and totally screwing up a young girl's life--it sounds like she might benefit more from someone who doesn't disregard the law just to get with her.
whichwayisup Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 TC is right...So if you like jail and want to deal with the Courts, and having an arrest record - GO for it. The consquences of your actions will follow you around forever...Her parents WILL make sure of that too. DID you know that ANY future job that you want, you may not get because of this one BAD choice you're about to make?? IS it worth throwing your life away for a 15 year old?? Come on man! Use that head of yours!! And I'm talking about the head on your neck, not the one between your legs. You're 19 years old and should know better...
Guest Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 hello all of anyone pleased to give me feedback on this i am currently 19 wanting to start a relationship with a 15 year old i know its illedal i dont care give me feedback??? i really like this girl i am interested to know what everyone else thinks please give feedback quick. You know I was once a 15 year old dating a 19 year old and I have to say that when a girl is 15 she cannot seriously commit herself. Give it just a few years. Like everyone else was saying: It's illegal! You can get yourself into more trouble than you realize. I know a guy who went to jail for it....don't be that guy!
Spank'n'Rationality Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 When I was 14 I had a relationship with an 18 year old; believe me, it is not a good idea. I mean, I wouldn't take back the experience, because I learned a lot about people and relationships. However, once my parents found out, the rest of my freshman year in high school with him (I was a freshman, he was a senior) was hell. I mean, my parents got the school involved, he wasn't allowed to talk to me (though he and I do occasionally talk now...seven years later), and the school principal was the only person who kept my parents from getting the law involved. It was such a bad experince (again, one I wouldn't take back, but it is something that made my life hell for a year, which at the time seemed like the end of my life). So, if her parents care about her well-being, which I am sure they do, they are never going to agree to their 15 year old daughter dating a 19 year old. It's not even so much the illegal issue, I mean, even at 19 you are still a kid, even if you are a legal adult, but the moral issue; I mean, you two are in completely different places in your life. Anway, I am sure no amount of opposing posts are going to stop you from doing what you want to do, so if you are going to persue her, just know that her mentality (no matter how seemingly mature she may be) is no where near your own; she is a child. So, be careful! Don't do anything stupid and get yourself in trouble with the law for stagitory rape (realize that even if she is willing, she isn't considered legally "able" to make that kind of decision); you may think that no one will ever find out, etc. etc., and even if no one does, if you two ever get into an arguement, and it doesn't work out, she can easily threaten you with getting her parents/the law involved. Just think about what you are doing before you go through with it. Good luck.
burning 4 revenge Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 hello all of anyone pleased to give me feedback on this i am currently 19 wanting to start a relationship with a 15 year old i know its illedal i dont care give me feedback??? i really like this girl i am interested to know what everyone else thinks please give feedback quick. Shark I'm telling you now kid, if your'e 19 don't waste your time with a girl who's 15. Look for a woman who's 35.You both will be in corresponding heat and she'll totally be in love with you, even if she eventually dumps you for someone more financially stable, or stops seeing you because of the husband. Plus she could teach you a few things and the sex would be amazing God, I wish I could be 19 again, I'd change just about everything
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