rossm Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Yep, you are right! YOU are cool! Too bad you're married... :) Awww, thanks. Hope to stay that way too. Thanks to all of you.
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 You seem to have your head screwed on straight. You and your wife are going to be fine. I am sure of it. Just keep that pesky OW away from you...
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 The saga continues.... A twenty something guy who has been hot after my you know what just called. He wants to take me out tonight. Wonder what women are lurking around in THIS one's life?! When it rains it pours... Come on you guys...move out here to Arizona. There's a ton of great men out here! Calgon...TAKE ME AWAY!
RealityCheck Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 WA..... *on the floor* "Yeah your cool, too bad your married"! That's halarious! Hey! Like I said, I am all for Arizona!!! I could "use" a boy toy right about now! *licking lips* WA, you gotta love the attention if nothing else! Great for the "Ego" I certainly relish in it even though I may not have an interest! I'm really enjoying the freedom! *Here's a Bud* Cheers Dolly!
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 Now, in all honesty, I have to say this: There will always be good guys and bad guys that pursue us. That is life. But, our job is to sort through that mess of men and throw away the bad ones. For whatever reason, I have been attracting a whole nest of men...some good but many not so good. (I hate to say bad because they may not be bad....just bad for ME) I am shocked, though. I have five kids and live a quiet life. I don't go out hardly ever and I spend most of my time with my kids or a precious few good friends. I have no idea what is going on.... Even I am perplexed...
rossm Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Just keep that pesky OW away from you... Well what a coincidence. She actually just CALLED me at work this morning. Typically she just IMs me or sends e-mail. Needless to say, I was quite surprised and totally tongue-tied. So I listened to her. In the back of my mind, I wanted to say "stop contacting me". But listening to her voice put me in this trance and reminded me of how it once was. So I didn't do it. SIGH. ARGGGGH.
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 Cheers right back at you, RC! I think I WILL have a Bud now....and a smile...
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 She IS a pesky little thing, isn't she? You must have some magic MO JO, Ross. When you don't hear from her are you okay THEN? Or is she still infecting your mind even then?
rossm Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 She IS a pesky little thing, isn't she? You must have some magic MO JO, Ross. When you don't hear from her are you okay THEN? Or is she still infecting your mind even then? I think I'm OK. I mean, I still think about her, although not as much since I've been trying to stay away. Not seeing her or hearing her voice definitely helps. She's been trying to IM and e-mail me, but it had gotten to the point where that was just like spam; impersonal words on a screen. Hearing her voice put a personal touch to it all. It's hard to block that out. I can't imagine what it would be like if I actually ran into her somewhere.
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 You are doing great, Ross. You really are. You are taking the proper steps to remove yourself from this difficult situation. Be proud for every day that you get stronger and stronger. I think it just takes time and NC really helps that along.
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 The saga continues.... A twenty something guy who has been hot after my you know what just called. He wants to take me out tonight. Wonder what women are lurking around in THIS one's life?! When it rains it pours... Come on you guys...move out here to Arizona. There's a ton of great men out here! Calgon...TAKE ME AWAY! It's raining men... hallelujah, it's raining men! lalalalala! I kill myself sometimes. To Ross... you know what? When your heart is ready to let go... really let go, you will be ready to tell her firmly not contact you again. You and your wife will get better so long as you BOTH put the effort in it.
movinon05 Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Oh Ross, turn away, turn away. You didn't respond to her and now she's calling you. She's not getting the hint. What was her point in calling since she knows you got the e-mails? She's not gonna stop. Hang tight. And WA! What the frig do you have in the water over there? Do you have a sign on your house that says "Call me. I'm available?"! sheesh. I get nuttin! And when this thing with my BF ends, I'll be a sad lonely girl for awhile!! lol! (Hmm. Maybe I'll put a sign up! How desperate can I get?!!) :bunny:
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 It is raining men... Hallelujah...It's raining men......Amen! Zara....Sure you don't want to move here?! Or join the WeatherGirls? Movinon, I don't get it. I really don't. Maybe these guys out here are attracted to women who think tarantulas are cute....Who knows?! And, I don't think you will be lonely for long. Just what I think...
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 It is raining men... Hallelujah...It's raining men......Amen! Zara....Sure you don't want to move here?! Or join the WeatherGirls? Movinon, I don't get it. I really don't. Maybe these guys out here are attracted to women who think tarantulas are cute....Who knows?! And, I don't think you will be lonely for long. Just what I think... Act needy... that'll scare 'em away.
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 Yep. You are right... Needy, clingy, insecure. And don't forget....give 'em sex on the first date....
movinon05 Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Yep. You are right... Needy, clingy, insecure. And don't forget....give 'em sex on the first date.... OMIGOSH, now i know you're drinkin'!!! I WANT OUT OF WORK!!!!!!!!!!!
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 Yep. I am having a beer right now. Been a long time coming, and I think I deserve it.... Wish you guys were here with me to toast all the lovely men in our lives...
RealityCheck Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 I do believe it rains men everywhere! Like WA said...its finding the one that is good for me! Hell, we all know if we went to the Mall and yelled.... *Can someone pleeeeease come and f*ck me* You bet you sweet a$$ you be surrounded! *laughing*
movinon05 Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Here's a duh that just popped into my head. Don't know if it was discussed with you guys as I am WORKING!! However, WA, if your friend "D" was broken up with the GF and she did get his cell phone number - which is his excuse - why was she calling from HIS cell phone at midnight???? Hellooooooooo. He F'd up big time with that lie!!!! lalalalalalaaaaaaaaa
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 You got that right, sister! But, with MY luck......they'd all be married or have psycho girlfriends...
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 He said he left his cell phone and his wallet in his car last night. He SAID she borrowed his car last night. He said he realized that he left his stuff in his car and she said she would return the phone and wallet with his car this morning. So, according to HIM, she had his phone all night.... But how was she able to retrieve his messages? The plot thickens....
movinon05 Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Blyck. I've heard so many stupid excuses and lies, I don't believe squat anymore. If that makes me cynical, so be it!
Author Walking away Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 Yep. I agree. I am so SICK of liars. WTH is wrong with these people? Is chivalry dead?
zarathustra Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 He said he left his cell phone and his wallet in his car last night. He SAID she borrowed his car last night. He said he realized that he left his stuff in his car and she said she would return the phone and wallet with his car this morning. So, according to HIM, she had his phone all night.... But how was she able to retrieve his messages? The plot thickens.... I doubt that this is a case of smells like fish, tastes like chicken... Its definitely a case of look like a duck, smell like a duck, and sound like a duck, so its probably a duck. Did I get it right?
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