After Party Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 Ok here goes, I am really curious about this, their is this female that I am highly interested in, and well I dunno how she feels now, I have been attracted and interested in her for about a yr, and we use to hang out all the time but not really much anymore, we kissed about 4 times, I cannot get her off my mind and it is driving me nuts, so one day I told her how I felt and she would never really reply she said that we would talk about it in person when we get the chance but I think that she is using that to maybe make me forget, it has been a month since I told her how I felt and really no reply from her. We both said that there are some songs that remind us of one another but anyone could say that, She asked me if I love her ( because I told her I care prob a lil more than she thinks) and I said for right now as friends, I went a couple of weeks with out calling her or texting her and I got a "miss u" at about 5 in the morning, I waited another wk and told her I miss her to. We started talking a little bit and she said somethings that maybe I am over reacting on, but she said she loves me and miss's me but its easier to run, I asked her that I thought that we had something and she said that we did but it was wrong from the start. But she keeps saying that she cares for me and loves me, We use to be cuddle buddies and everything, I would do anything for this girl but I just dont know what it mean's when she says that she loves and miss's me.. Is it a good sign or am I looking way to much into it?! Someone please let me know...
agnf666 Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I honestly think that you should just try to be her friend. If you want something else out of it then you need to straight up and say it. Tell her you want to be more then friends and you need to know what she thinks about that. Make sure you get an answer. To me I see this as she really lieks you as a friend and maybe is very confused as to what she wants. She may still be thinking of you as friends and not anything more then that. So, step your game up and ask her and then ask her what she thinks. Tell her silence is not the answer.
MadDog Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 The thing is, even if 2 people are into each other, if one or both of them aren't ready for a relationship, whatever the reason, it's not going to work out. It's pretty obvious from what she's said that she's not ready so just do your own thing. If she comes around later down the road, you can decide if she's worth it. The biggest mistake for you would be to put your life on hold (e.g. pass up opportunities to date other girls) hoping she'll come around because there's a good chance she never will.
Tim'sAngel Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 Sounds like she's playing games with you. We women are notorious for that. Sounds to me like shes not ready for a relationship yet, but wants to keep you around just in case she changes her mind. I'd move on
agnf666 Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 I think you should stay friends with her but move on to another girl to have a relationship with
Author After Party Posted May 19, 2006 Author Posted May 19, 2006 Thanks for what everyone has said but the thing is some of the replies I got was she isnt ready for a relationship and what not, well she has a boy friend and everything, but its like I dunno she uses me almost as a crutch, we talk but not often when i dont talk to her she sends me messages that she misses me and it throws me off. I would do anything for her, and another thing is that she notices when I talk about or talk to other girls its I guess the jealous part I dunno. So really should I be the person that just doesnt give up or just drop it, cause she said we had something once ( when she had a man) but it was wrong so I dunno I dont want anyone else right now u know...
Author After Party Posted May 24, 2006 Author Posted May 24, 2006 Does anyone actually know what I can say to her or what not?!
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