GoingDownSwinging Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 I have composed a letter to my ex and want some feedback...I want this to be the last contact I initiate with him EVER. I am ready to go into full NC...let me know what you think... I haven’t cried in 2 days. Yes, this lying, insensitive ex-girlfriend of yours has cried every day for a month. Why do I cry? Because, I made a big mistake. I made a mistake when I ignored your requests to try to work things out. ****, I’m sorry. I’m sorry that I lied to you and I’m sorry that I wasn’t ever what I should have been, but its obvious now, that my apologies aren’t going to change your mind. I have called, texted, and emailed with no avail. This will be my last attempt to initiate contact with you. Please don’t take this as a threat, it is just time for me to really let go if you aren’t ever going to talk to me. I am going to be in town the 25th-29th of May. I would like to have lunch or dinner with you so that we can talk and maybe “clear the air” on some things. If I don’t hear from you by the time I return home on the 29th, I will no longer initiate or reciprocate contact with you. If you don’t want to see me or talk to me, then don’t call. But if you do, I would love to hear from you. If you are seeing someone else, maybe you two can read this together and get a good laugh. Hopefully, she’s different than I and will realize what she has before she loses it. *******
KittenMoon Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 I just wanted to let you know I made a mistake when I ignored your requests to try to work things out. ****, I’m sorry. I’m sorry that I lied to you and I’m sorry that I wasn’t ever what I should have been. This will be my last attempt to initiate contact with you. I am going to be in town the 25th-29th of May. I would like to have lunch or dinner with you so that we can talk and maybe “clear the air” on some things. If I don’t hear from you by the time I return home on the 29th, I will no longer initiate or reciprocate contact with you. If you are seeing someone else, hopefully, she’s different than I and will realize what she has before she loses it. If you are really doing this for HIS closure, not your own motivations, read above- I edited down your letter. As it reads before, it is NOT an apology- it's a cry for attention from him. You're doing the whole reverse psychology thing with him in several places. If you feel the need to apologize, this letter will suffice. Lunch/dinner is not necessary. He has refused to talk to you already. If you need to apologize, do it. However in your letter you are obviously trying to persuade him to contact you again, even if you don't realize it.
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