wahaha1 Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 To recap, I broke up with my ex for several months, he jumped right into marriage in march, I knew the news in April, collapsed for a week. Now this is mid may, he initiatied email contact with me, I replied politely, limited things to superficial level. we are still friends. For some reasons the emails had some triggers that start to fume, it's all about some superficial matters, not our past relationship. I got furious and fight back in email... and he fighted back too and start to attack me personally... basically we never did that before.. anywayz, at the end, I told him if he feel happier to do this, and if he feel he has not done enough hurt on me after dumping me, go ahead.. then he said sorry and told me his issues..., his work, and later he said that he is no longer married...?! I felt so sad to hear that and told him marriage is a life long committment and please keep his promise and do his best to save his marriage. Then he replied and said that his wife has another man..., now he is no longer married and has nothing but I still have my bf. I feel so sad for him.., I am so sorry to hear that..., I don't hate him at all, and I am not sure how to calm him down... Please help.
Just Visiting Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 You don't owe him anything. He chose to marry someone else. Now that his marriage is busted, he has to work through the issues himself. If you speak to him again, tell him you are sorry about his marriage and leave it at that. This has potential drama written all over it.
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