foolinlove Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 OMG...Gray's Anatomy....need I say more? McDreamy was like EVERY other MM. The OW begins to move on with her life, find happiness in a man or an activity and the MM has to come along and disrupt her life because of HIS needs. I could have just punched him when he looked across the room at her and saw her FINALLY happy and had to ruin it for her. Selfish bastard. And talk about fullfilling his needs when HE wants them taken care of. I'm so sad the show is over for the season. What did others think?
brashgal Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 I didn't see it that way. I think she thought she should be happy since the vet was supposedly everything she could ever want, I think she still wanted McDreamy. It was mutual.
BUTAFLY Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Your both right. I think Mcdreamy needs to either get a divorce and be with the one he claims he loves Or let her go. She was fine until he locked eyes with her, another trick to suck to OW back in knowing how she feels for him and using that to his advantage. Who should she pick? Is Mcdreamy for real? should she consider going back to mcdreamy after all he's put her through? can she trust him? boy that last scene was a nail biter for me...can't wait to see what happens next. and to all the BS's/W's This shows exactlly what the OW/MM dynamic (well at least mine) is all about. Working together creates the tension, jelousy, longing, stares across the room, thinking what could have been, what could be, balancing a platonic relationship while supressing romantic feelings. we're not all hussies trying to steal your husbands.
My_Other_I Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 lol, I saw that episode, too. I thought it was so funny and so on target! OK, so he is out with his W, f*cks his OW in the same building without anyone (almost) knowing, just to go right back to his W. Wives will never be sure of their cheating husbands. Ever. I can tell you right now - if I ever get married and my H cheats on me once, he is out. He is useless to me at that point because I would never EVER trust him again and I refuse to waste my time with negative feelings of hate, jealousy and fear.
Outcast Posted May 18, 2006 Posted May 18, 2006 He fell out of love with his wife when his wife cheated on him. He's been trying to recreate the love because he's trying to be a good guy but he had already fallen for Meredith. Meredith was not doing ok. She was tryng to fool her own self in trying to move on - that discussion about the dog 'I love him' - wasn't about the dog at all. That look at the party wasn't the deal-breaker. Every time they were together they both knew they cared. Remember - he was cheated on and left. His wife followed him to try to get him back and he decided he should try it. So I think lumping him in with jerk mms is not fair. I expect he'll tell the wife to go - and remember, her boss isn't all that happy with her either.
NoIDidn't Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 I hate the relationship with McDreamy and Meredith. And McDreamy is a jerk for one reason and one reason only. He started a relationship with Meredith without disclosing his situation with her. He didn't even tell her he was married. That sucks. She fell for a guy she didn't know had a wife and the way she found out. No wonder she was not doing okay. He was on the rebound and then expected her to just get over whatever she felt for him because his wife came back. I feel for Meredith. I understand the MM/OW dynamic. Its not a dynamic that's only common to them. And he is a jerk for another reason. Acting like he is trying to reconcile with Addison but really pining over Meredith. Sick. In one episode he told her (addison) he was sorry for becoming indifferent and ignoring her - in fact leading her to look elsewhere. She has no excuse and she didn't make one. She is a reformed MW who wants her marriage to work. Unfortunately, it won't. He's a runner and will eventually tire of Meredith too. Rant over. I love this show.
Jessie61 Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 Would you all believe it, I only discovered "Grays Anatomy" recently??? I think it is the 2nd series! I must have lived with a paper bag over my head, deep deep down in some dungeon for the last couple of years...? Yes, I love the show too and find the OW/MM/W dynamic quite interesting!
BUTAFLY Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 McDreamy is a jerk for one reason and one reason only. He started a relationship with Meredith without disclosing his situation with her. He didn't even tell her he was married. That sucks. She fell for a guy she didn't know had a wife and the way she found out. No wonder she was not doing okay. He was on the rebound and then expected her to just get over whatever she felt for him because his wife came back. QUOTE] I am glued to the show because thats my exact situation. And i'm so tired of people telling me to 'get over it' because he's married. WELL I DIDN'T KNOW THAT!! now i'm mourning the man I fell in love with-a man I thought I knew- to find out he's someone elses husband. And I'm left with a bag of mixed up emotions I have no clue what to do with. I hate him for not disclosing that and lust after him at the same time. GRRR!!
Outcast Posted May 20, 2006 Posted May 20, 2006 Ok, he should have said he was married but they started out with a one-time fling and he was SEPARATED and not planning to go back to wifey at the time. And he's not going to stay with wifey either although surely there will be some sort of crisis (probably health - maybe an aneurism for her) that he'll have to help with and feel bad if he doesn't. They have to dangle us for a long time over these two - we can't get the payoff too soon or we'll lose interest. Meanwhile boohoo about Denny! I wanted him to be a regular.
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