miamiheat5 Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Ok so ive had this feelin this girl has liked me since september cuz id see her lookin at me frequently in class and turning back and lookin at me while i was copying notes down. I would talk to her friend and her and help them in the class we were in together and had a thing for her friend awhile ago but it was for a very short time. Anyways back during bball season when she would score keep id be watchin the game or them warming up through our gym doors and i could see her lookin at me and would not even pay attention to the game at one point or after every whistle look in my direction again. She smiles alot when she walks by including when she is with friends they smile to and sometimes acknowledge me to.Or if i walk by her in the hall when she is sittin down with some friends same thing there eyes seem to follow me as i go by. Recently we have made long periods of eye contact at one another and she seems to stop what she is doing to look at me like stop talkin to a friend. Or would check to see if i came outside when her and a freind were leavin the school i could see her look back to see if i followed them outside and no one else was around at the time so i can't see y she would look back unless there was a purpose. Today she had a soccer game and walked by with a friend and came back but could have gone into the school through 2 other doors but chose to go through the front and walk by me again or possibly just wanted to go that way i don't really know. There are more things ive found strange but i think thats enough for now. I am starting to like her so i will try to talk to her more and see what happens. recent stuff is i turn around while in the front of the school waitin for a ride home and she was there walkin by me really close with a smile on her face. One day she was adjusting her pants or her underwear as i walked by and her back was facin my direction. Sittin close by my locker with her friends and i was puttin my stuff away i could see her feet were pointin toward me and at during that day i was going to the front and she was with 2 of her friends and i was walkin in there way and her friend moved so i could walk by her. Lastly she has brushed up against me when walkin by sometimes. This other girl that im good friends with believes she has never really had a bf and might be to shy to approach me but she says i have got nothing to lose.
whichwayisup Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 You've liked her since September and you've still not asked her out??? GO for it! What's the worst that can happen?? She says no thanks. But, stay positive and just ask her out! If you don't, you'll always wonder and maybe regret not asking her.
MadDog Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Every situation needs a theme song so here's yours: Always on My Mind by Phantom Planet "Everybody in this place can up and move away For all I care this town’s already dead and empty I’m told that I’m a victim of obsession That’s what my friends say Oh I’m a fool for having ever let her tempt me Well I turn pale when she walks by I am lost in her eyes She is always on my mind She is always on my mind She glances over but she keeps on walking down that street All I can do is hope that she is thinking of me If I could blink if I could breathe if I could get my legs to move Well this could be the day I get this girl to love me Well I turn pale when she walks by I am lost in her eyes She is always on my mind She is always on my mind She had turned from a sound, Well I must have cried out loud She is always on my mind She is always on my mind "
MadDog Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Dude. In a vast majority of cases, you aren't going to be 100% sure whether a girl is interested in you. As a guy, you have the burden of making the first move with most girls. That involves risk because the girl might not be into you but you've gotta pay the cost to be the boss.
Vertex Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 She sounds interested to me but as MadDog said, making some move might yield an accurate answer
MadDog Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 She sounds interested to me but as MadDog said, making some move might yield an accurate answer So you're agreeing. He needs to pay the cost to be the boss. Gotta get the ghetto slang correct.
Vertex Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 True that. If all goes well, you'll be the boss and the cost will be paid back crazy-hardcore style...
mini696 Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Not only is it almost impossible for any guy to know 100% if a girl is interested BEFORE a relationship begins, it is still a problem knowing that when you are together. Make a move, and have no regrets.
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