kitten chick Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 it is a double-standard KC...but that is the way it is, accept it. Men don't like women who are loose and women don't like women who are loose. And...men don't come home pregnant. Jeez man. I swear old man, you really have the worst case of selective reading. I said I know it exists, I want to know why.
alphamale Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 I said I know it exists, I want to know why. I already told you. Women don't like sexually easy women because they are a threat and could steal their men away. Men love easy women for fun but not for a serious relationship or marriage. What exactly do you not understand about that KC?
kitten chick Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Women don't like sexually easy women because they are a threat and could steal their men away. I don't believe this to be true. I have friends that are very easy and they wouldn't steal a boyfriend of mine away. Besides, it takes 2 to tango. It's just as much up to the man to leave as it is for the woman to "take" him. Men love easy women for fun but not for a serious relationship or marriage. WHY??? Are they afraid that the woman will start having sex with everyone under the sun when they're married?
alphamale Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 I don't believe this to be true. what?! so KC...you're telling me if you were married and your hubbie started cozying up to the town floozie that you would not be concerned? Give me a break! WHY??? Are they afraid that the woman will start having sex with everyone under the sun when they're married? basically, yes...
kitten chick Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 what?! so KC...you're telling me if you were married and your hubbie started cozying up to the town floozie that you would not be concerned? Give me a break! I'd be concerned if they were "cozying up" to any woman I didn't know regardless of her sexual prowess. I've never really had a problem with anyone I've dated having friends of the opposite sex and all of the times I've been cheated on it's been with a new woman, not a friend or someone who was already in the picture. sorry...off topic
JustWantToBeHappy Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Maybe a girl likes sex but hasn't dated nor has had sex in a long while. There is always the possibility that's why she gave it up so easily. Does that make her more of a "relationship girl"? I mean, men want a girl that likes sex, right? Another thought... I think the majority of people have had a one night stand. From friends I've spoken with about this, I also think that many women have had only ONE "one night stand". How would you guys feel if you were her ONLY one night stand? Would that make a difference?
starlet Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Interesting.. Men who sleep with a lot of women are the Pimps, Players and are seen as "the MAN" ( feeding that man ego) but then when women do the same they are called sluts, easy and whores. Seriously - that is one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. Drives me crazy. Because I just don't get why that double standard is considered "okay" or whatever - if it makes women whores, it should work the same for men. (Like right now - we're talking about the girl "being easy". If the man participates - doesn't that make him easy too??]
Pyro Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 Interesting.. Men who sleep with a lot of women are the Pimps, Players and are seen as "the MAN" ( feeding that man ego) but then when women do the same they are called sluts, easy and whores. Just wondering... 1. Does this include PORN STARS? Do they get respect at all? 2. Some men get offended when women use them for sex (believe it) 3.Tables are turned because the times have changed. I believe women have more power now sexually. We can pick and choose and for that we get morally judged:mad: Yeah, its pretty screwed up on how some view this. In society, men do get called pimps for having a high number, and the girl gets called a whore. Its BS and its unfair to woman and I am sure that the woman haters in the world disagree with me on that.
Pyro Posted May 16, 2006 Posted May 16, 2006 any anyways, research has shown that, in general, the more attractive the woman the longer she holds out to give up the booty. What research? i dated a girl for a year and a half. She was drop dead gorgeous, the modeling type, but very insecure and unstable. We had sex 3 days after becoming official. I was young and stupid then.
TeaCooler Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 I'd be concerned if they were "cozying up" to any woman I didn't know regardless of her sexual prowess. i agree. and i also think there are more circumstances that constitute "the town floozie" compared to some average jo-ann who sleeps with some guy on the first date. i don't know. i don't think i personally know a single soul whose relationship did NOT begin with sex. sex was like the deciding factor, maybe, and it just worked out. seems to simple. or maybe people just didn't have sex with someone they weren't interested enough to date. i don't know. but that's what i've seen.
Author barfool Posted May 17, 2006 Author Posted May 17, 2006 I may respect that she engages in casual sex and expects nothing more than that -- but it was "casual" -- I'm not going to wake up the next day and think anything more than that about her, since she hasn't really justified more or indicated by her actions that she's looking for more. This is also what I'm thinking. If you have sex at the point where things are still friendly and not serious then things get kind of locked in that way. Interesting.. Men who sleep with a lot of women are the Pimps, Players and are seen as "the MAN" ( feeding that man ego) but then when women do the same they are called sluts, easy and whores. This is sad but true. This is also why I own my sluthood. I am one because I enjoy sex and feel comfortable enough to enjoy it with who I want when I want. I am not a whore nor easy because I am not indiscriminate. I am a proud slut!
alphamale Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 What research? i dated a girl for a year and a half. She was drop dead gorgeous, the modeling type, but very insecure and unstable. We had sex 3 days after becoming official. I was young and stupid then. I wasn't referring to 20 year old females. They are young and stupid and haven't figured out yet what their looks are "worth"
Pyro Posted May 17, 2006 Posted May 17, 2006 I wasn't referring to 20 year old females. They are young and stupid and haven't figured out yet what their looks are "worth" I would still like to know what research that you are referring to. There are still older attractive woman who are very easy. Its all about individual values.
Kittiecat Posted May 19, 2006 Posted May 19, 2006 This is sad but true. This is also why I own my sluthood. I am one because I enjoy sex and feel comfortable enough to enjoy it with who I want when I want. I am not a whore nor easy because I am not indiscriminate. I am a proud slut! Great post! Apparently it's still taboo for a woman to want to get laid. People seem to think that just because a woman has a "high number" it should be attributed to low self esteem, lack of self respect, etc. Many well adjusted, successful, happy women get horny and do something about it, big deal. Girls will be girls!
Guest Posted June 7, 2006 Posted June 7, 2006 it has for me....if I can get her into the sack quickly then so can any other guy. any anyways, research has shown that, in general, the more attractive the woman the longer she holds out to give up the booty. Ironically enough, the same men who dismiss a woman for putting out too soon as some sort of turbo slut get raging pissed off over those who auction their vaginas off to the highest bidder (car, money, vacations, big engagement rings...) The woman who goes for it may no more of a slut than the woman who is holding out...what is she holding out for? The guy who spends the largest amount, that's what. Frankly, I would rather be a tramp than a whore. And the guy who is that sanctimonious is not worthy of my time or my naughty bits. As Oscar Wilde said, "Any preoccupation with ideas of what is right and wrong in conduct shows an arrested intellectual development."
Stunner Posted June 9, 2006 Posted June 9, 2006 He gave me the 'green light' on our third official date three weeks in to the relationship. He literally sat at dinner and said, "I am not the guy to take things to the next level. I will wait for YOU to give me the signals and take it further." So, after dinner...I did! If he felt nothing for me he sure covered it well. Three hours of bliss! BTW, he is tall handsome and built!!!! We meshed very very well!
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