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[Jace19]

okay heres my situation... ive known this girl for quite some time now and we had this on and off flings for eachother for about a year now and its in the cycle where we flirt with each other outragously , we're always on the phone together and ur probably thinking that dosent seem so bad well here the bad news she hangs out with this other guy alot and we would make plans together like going to a movie or this huge aquarium place (called the sharkreef very beautiful) but she would hardly follows through and the worst one is that shes moving to a different city but she would be visiting every other weekend and she would be staying the whole summer.. so im getting alot of mixed signals as u can see what should i do? also should i back out now and just talk to her saying its best that we stay freinds so that i could save myself so heart break or should i continue on and see where this takes us

[Big_A]

I have had a couple of instances like this, where we seemed to be more then friends but less then exclusive. As it turns out I don’t deal well with the situation, so I communicate what I’m feeling and watch what happens. Every time I’ve done this she has told me that she doesn’t want a relationship with me. However in the long run it freed me up to find women that did and most of them made me very happy.

 

Play it cool. If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive then there is no reason she shouldn't hang out with another guy. If you can't handle the jealousy then you have to let her know that it’s you or not you. Be prepared for it to not be you though.