lance.dark Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 There is this girl I'm extremely interested in getting to know better but I for one am shy when it comes down to interacting with the opposite gender. She also is not a very outgoing person, and really keeps to herself and does not talk very much, at least as far as I can tell. What makes me even more nervous is that she's a year and eight months older than I am, and I am only in her math class, although I see her frequently in the halls between classes. Normally, I would not even think of persuing this but at the end of class I was standing near the doorway and talking to a friend of mine and I distinctly saw her sitting on a desk looking at me for a while (this was out of the corner of my eye so I could be mistaken, but it was definitely in my direction). Other gestures like this have occurred as well. Where do I proceed from here? Should I just drop it? Any advice is appreciated.
Guest Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Well, my advice is just get her to talk to you. dont know how since youre shy, but im sure if you talk to her she will at least know who you are, and thats a good thing. also, when you talk to her, give her a good impression. by that i mean look at her in the eyes and be friendly and open minded. i talk from experience!
pricillia Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Hi I would start by introducing yourself, I used to be that shy, you seem like you recognize her shyness, once you get talking she will open up to you, don't try to hit on her per say... just try to get to know her, then go from there. Hope that helps
Author lance.dark Posted May 14, 2006 Author Posted May 14, 2006 Well I'm not sure it's so much that she's shy, maybe it's that she's just reserved. It's difficult to explain...
pricillia Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 some women are like that, if you really like her then you will take the time to get to know her, for me as a woman It takes me a little while to decide if I would like to get to know a guy that I may be interested, the guys that I have liked have taken the time to get to know me a little in a non dating scene, for me that works best. That way the girl has tome to feel comfortable. She is in the same class as you... right, take the time to get to know her that way.
Author lance.dark Posted May 15, 2006 Author Posted May 15, 2006 Thanks pricillia, I'll let you know how it goes.
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