Hopeful777 Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 I will keep it brief enough to make this readable, but detailed enough to not have enough for everyone to understand: I met a beautiful gal at a friend's house. I ended up talking with her, and I think that she was interested. Next time(about 3 days later) I ran into her, it was the same deal, expect with a little flirting. Next time I meet her(about week after the last time I saw her), We were at a party, and neither of us were drinking, and we talked and I had to go to store to get some orange juice, and she asked if she could come along. I said yes of course, and we drove there and back, me making her laugh most of the trip. I ended up giving her my number before I left, but she didn't give me her phone number. I see her every few days or so, because we have mutual friends. After hanging out one night at a friend's house, I walked her home, and ask if she wanted to go on a date. She wanted to, but had to check her schedule. I call her back( I thank a friend for giving her number to me, it had totally slipped my mind to ask for it again) on the day before the date, and found out she was free to go. So we went on a date the next day, and it was fun. We did the dreaded "dinner and a movie" kinda date, but it turned out very well. And she was very touchy, and chatty, and fun. She also grabbed my hand and held it, which was interesting, and I think a clear indicatitor that she was at least interested. We ended the date on a good note, with just talking and sitting next to each other. I asked her on for a second date, but she is busy, of course. But she is interested in a second date. A week goes by and within that week, we see each other a lot. She is very touchy, and likes give me big hugs, and etc. and I return the touchiness, to a small degree. So she called me and wanted to hang out before a party we were going to. (Note: this is the only time she has called me). We go to a party at the end of last week and she is very touchy again, and she doesn't drink, and I drank a little, and we end up kissing. And cuddling. And she kept on calling me honey. (Another Note: We aren't official at all, just dating.) But nothing beyond that. Great night. So, the current situation: It has been about 1 week, and 1 day since I have seen her at the party( she woke up before I did and had to go to work), and I have called her twice. I left a message the first time. Then I waited a few days and called her again. She wasn't couldn't hang out, and now its been a few days later. I am just taking it in stride, and my problem is this: I like her, I think she is someone I would like to date seriously, and I see a possible relationship in it. I have turned down other women's advances for the current. I haven't pressed the issue of what is happening between us, because I don't have the right to press about it yet and I am not exactly one to force anything. I like things to be smooth and just happen, or just slide by, unless I think I need to act(I don't let everything slip by though, just most things). I think she likes me, but I don't know whether this sudden lapse in communication is because she found out she doesn't like me, or is playing hard to get, or whether she was testing me and I failed. I care a little, but I am not heart broken thinking that I may not be dating her anymore. Just confused. Suggestions would be appreciated.
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