jen_jen_heartbroken Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 Today I cried (again) at work. All it takes is something little to remind me of the fact that he's gone, taken his love away, and I end up a sobbing mess. It's been five months. Why won't this horrible sadness end?
Guitar Wizard Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 Aww, Jen Im sorry. Erm, you don't remember me because every 2 months I get a new user name so that people don't get used to me or anything. Heh. Anyway... just, try not to think about him anymore. I know, your thinking "Duh! What do you think i've been trying to do!", but... You just need to focus on your current day life. Go out with your friends and such, get a hobby, focus on everything else but this guy. And eventually, if you keep your mind from wandering down that hurtful road, time will take away the pain. Just... don't dwell on the past, and move on tward the future and the hope of a better tomorrow.
hurtbeyondwords Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 hey Jen, I know how you feel. I leave for my big move in 5 days and it's really been taking it's toll. Recently Ive relized that this is it. It cant be more over than moving to another province. I cant tell you any words to feel better so Im gonna send you a hug. *hugs*
undying Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 hey Jen, my last break up was the most horrible thing i had gone through. I was a moping depressive wreck and that feeling lasted for 6 long months. I cried a lot. The worst thing was that I saw him almost everyday because we both worked in the same office, and that made it feel all the more painful, especially when he was pretending nothing had happened. I was suicidal. i felt that I would never meet the right guy. I felt hopeless and the worst thing was I was still emotionally clinging on to the loser that dumped me! Then one day, I told myself that enough was enough. I did not deserved this guy, i deserved much better. i deserved to be happy. So I picked myself up, started meeting friends, started to enjoy myself with things that made me happy. it was extremely hard at first, but soon, I decided I could be happy being single, I did not need to depend on anyone to be happy, and most importantly, I prayed to God to heal me, to help me cope and get through this. I don't know if you're religious or not, but i do feel praying did help me weather the storm and made me feel i could live again. The happy ending of this story is that I finally did find someone I deserved, one month after i decided to pick myself up and be more positive. I wish you all the best Jen. It's been 5 months already. you should start to pick yourself up too.
Star Gazer Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Ok, Jen (my name too...)... this might sound silly, but have you read "It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken?" It is fantastic, and has really helped me feel better over the course of this most recent breakup, as well as the one before that. Other than that... just give it TIME. (((HUGS)))
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