agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 Okay, So I got the nerve and met this guy from that big popular website that I'm not going to mention. We met monday night. I took a few friends with me to met him. Things went really well so, my friends left me with him after a while. So, we hung out that night and then I went home. Then tuesday night we hung out agian, and this time we made out a little bit... Then we hung out agian Thursday night and made out agian, alittle dry humping and so forth... I like him and all but he has yet to give me his phone number and still only talks to me online. What the hell is up with that? I am also a virgin so I will not be putting out anytime soon and he knows this. He said to me the other day that he thinks the two of us together will work... but it just seems really shady of him not wanting to give me his number. Should I be worried about that or just let that go?
whichwayisup Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 Yes. He is using the 'online' chatting thing as a shield. Maybe he's shy, I don't know, but that is a red flag. If things are going to progress, it has to go offline and onto the phone. It's too comfy online and it is easy to allow fanasty to take over. Also, words can jump off the screen a certain way. It's better to hear his voice, hear is mannerisms, his reactions etc. You don't get any of that by having chats online.
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 Yah I know... I gave him my number the other night and he has yet to call me. Wierd... I never had a guy that done that. Maybe he is like not sure what he wants to do so, he figures he wants to keep this online until he decides what he wants... It does through up a red flag though.
Mary3 Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 Yah I know... I gave him my number the other night and he has yet to call me. Wierd... I never had a guy that done that. Maybe he is like not sure what he wants to do so, he figures he wants to keep this online until he decides what he wants... It does through up a red flag though. He's dry humping you and he has never talked to you on the phone ? I think he is fascinated with your pure peaches and would like to pluck some fruit. Big red flag when they dont give you their number . BIG RED FLAG EVERYTIME !
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 Well, I'm going to see what is going on with that. I'm leaving to go on vacation soon. So, if this player doesn't call me then I'm done with his ass. I mean he did tell me alot of personal things, maybe he just doesn't like the phone or something. I don't know. One thing is for sure he isn't getting into my pants anytime soon. I shouldn't even have done what I did...but oh well...
alphamale Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 maybe he'll cough up his phone # once you give him your cherry
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 maybe he'll cough up his phone # once you give him your cherry haha.. I think not....
alphamale Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 haha.. I think not.... does he even have a phone? does he live with his parents?
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 does he even have a phone? does he live with his parents? He has a cell phone I seen it the other day. He lives with his parents. It's just wierd how he can tell me about where he works and lives but can't give me his number.... kinda shady...
Pyro Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 He has a cell phone I seen it the other day. He lives with his parents. It's just wierd how he can tell me about where he works and lives but can't give me his number.... kinda shady... I'm with everyone else, its a red flag if he doesn't want to give you his number or if he hasn't called you. If he were truly interested in you, he would have no trouble giving out his number to you.
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 That's true... I think im going to go internet missing for a while and we will see what happens. He knew I was a virgin before we even went out so, he must have known I was not going to be an easy lay for him... Who knows what the hell is up. He tells me about all these woman he has dated that has cheated on him and what not. Maybe he has his guard up. I don't know. I'm not going to put anymore effort into this s***.
Pyro Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 That's true... I think im going to go internet missing for a while and we will see what happens. He knew I was a virgin before we even went out so, he must have known I was not going to be an easy lay for him... Who knows what the hell is up. He tells me about all these woman he has dated that has cheated on him and what not. Maybe he has his guard up. I don't know. I'm not going to put anymore effort into this s***. Good for you. I have always said that its cool to try the internet dating scene, but IMHO, meeting people in real life is way more formal and you get to know the person better by talking to them and looking at them, rather then over the computer. This guy sounds like all talk. He probably wants to keep you around in hopes that you will lay your guard down and give it up to him, but at the same time, he wants to keep his options open with others. Dump the loser.
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 He does give me that all talk vibe... Also seems a little desperate in a way to wanna met me the day after we first met each other. He did sound like an alright guy, so the number thing got to me a little bit. I mean I did communicate with my last boyfriend online alot more then on the phone, so who knows with that s***. This was my first time meeting a person from the internet... I don't know if there is going to be a next time after this s***.
Pyro Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 He does give me that all talk vibe... Also seems a little desperate in a way to wanna met me the day after we first met each other. He did sound like an alright guy, so the number thing got to me a little bit. I mean I did communicate with my last boyfriend online alot more then on the phone, so who knows with that s***. This was my first time meeting a person from the internet... I don't know if there is going to be a next time after this s***. Talking to a S.O. online is fine but I think that something is up if they don't want to talk on the phone, meaning this guy. He probably wants to cover up his tracks. He can hide the fact of talking to anyone on his computer. Either way, you have made a wise choice and I wish you the best of luck on your dating quest.
suzie sweet Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 i met mine as well and on the 1st telephone chat he gave me his number we talked online the 1st time and he rang the 2nd so i know he`s got nothing to hide like married or owt, weve been out twice and hes on way now to pick me up so id better dash, good luck honey xxx
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 i met mine as well and on the 1st telephone chat he gave me his number we talked online the 1st time and he rang the 2nd so i know he`s got nothing to hide like married or owt, weve been out twice and hes on way now to pick me up so id better dash, good luck honey xxx Well... Thats nice but it still doesn't answer my issue... Glad someone is having better luck with that then me...
Pyro Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 Well... Thats nice but it still doesn't answer my issue... Glad someone is having better luck with that then me... In the future, just be on the look out for anything that is unusual. I would say that a guy not asking for your phone number right away qualifies for unusual, and if you are not sure about anything else, feel free to drop us a line here on LS.
Author agnf666 Posted May 13, 2006 Author Posted May 13, 2006 Yah... Usually I get pointed into the right direction here on LS. The last 2 times I met this guy he was like... So, do you have any new questions to ask me? I'm like damn I don't know what else I am suppose to ask... Lets see what is with you and the telephone.. hahah... That's the next one.
Mary3 Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Okay, So I got the nerve and met this guy from that big popular website that I'm not going to mention. We met monday night. I took a few friends with me to met him. Things went really well so, my friends left me with him after a while. So, we hung out that night and then I went home. Then tuesday night we hung out agian, and this time we made out a little bit... Then we hung out agian Thursday night and made out agian, alittle dry humping and so forth... I like him and all but he has yet to give me his phone number and still only talks to me online. What the hell is up with that? I am also a virgin so I will not be putting out anytime soon and he knows this. He said to me the other day that he thinks the two of us together will work... but it just seems really shady of him not wanting to give me his number. Should I be worried about that or just let that go? I have to wonder how it came to be that he knew you were a virgin ? ( does he know ? ) I would say that there has been some * sex talk * as in , maybe you guys talked about sex and your virginity ? . The moment he got you alone he was making out with you. This is not fine if you want to give up your cherry to some fast talking guy on the internet after a few dates. It also still seems weird that you dont have his number. He is either 1) lying about something 2) is talking to more than one girl ( Highly Likely ) 3) just wants your fresh peaches 4) lives with his parents,.,...how old is he ?
Author agnf666 Posted May 14, 2006 Author Posted May 14, 2006 Well we got to talking about it before we met, and he asked me what I like and I said.. "I'm a virgin, so I haven't done anything" So, with that being said, before we met he knew that. So, this guys is either talking to a few other girls... In which, wouldn't surprise me much at all. He does live with his parents. He told me about that. More or less he just wanted fresh peaches...haha So, who knows. I messaged him friday but he never wrote back. He seems to disappear on the weekends. He must hve himself a f*** buddy or something he does on the weekends and then decides to try to get me for his weekdays or something... Now that could be it.
Jadey Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 In all honesty hun, I think the reaity is he wants you in bed. Sorry but that's just the feeling I get Of course I may be wrong! Hope you sort things out and if he isn't for real, kick that ass!!
Author agnf666 Posted May 14, 2006 Author Posted May 14, 2006 I had that feeling as well... but he knows I'm not doing s***. So, I guess he won't be talking to me anymore. Oh well... That's fine. God it's hard to find a half ass decent guy. I thought he was.. maybe I'm wrong.. who knows
Mary3 Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Well we got to talking about it before we met, and he asked me what I like and I said.. "I'm a virgin, so I haven't done anything" So, with that being said, before we met he knew that. So, this guys is either talking to a few other girls... In which, wouldn't surprise me much at all. He does live with his parents. He told me about that. More or less he just wanted fresh peaches...haha So, who knows. I messaged him friday but he never wrote back. He seems to disappear on the weekends. He must hve himself a f*** buddy or something he does on the weekends and then decides to try to get me for his weekdays or something... Now that could be it. On the internet men ( and women ) have VAST amounts of chance encounters available if they chose to do so. If he is a player, then I promise you, YOU are NOT the only one he is sweet talking to....He just found an easy way to get laid and is headed for your patch of peaches. Keep your peaches fresh and for someone who cares when you finally do give them to someone. I mean afterall, we are talking for your first time. It should be special. Not some internet male whore who just wants to score fast and dump your arse by the roadside. Protect the Peaches at all cost !
alphamale Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 Protect the Peaches at all cost ! what are the "peaches"??? is it breasts? I've never heard this term...
Mary3 Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 what are the "peaches"??? is it breasts? I've never heard this term... Think of peaches....all juicy ....you know...lol
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