Guest Posted May 13, 2006 Posted May 13, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half. We're now finishing our first year of college and it was really hard for me so I started to rely on him a lot more than I had in high school. About 6 months ago it got to be too much for him so we went on a break. After about a week he realized that he still wanted me in his life. Then 3 months later, it happened again but this time we actually broke up. About a week and a half later we went to lunch, just to see how each other was doing and he said everything I wanted to hear, that he loved me, he missed me, etc. I said we were going to take it slow and just date, nothing serious, at least for awhile. So now it's been three months and we are serious again but I still sometimes get this urge to hurt him, to get him back. I know it's because I'm not completely healed from when he broke up with me the second time. And I just don't know if I'll ever completely forgive him. And I don't know how long I should wait to find out. If anyone has experience with getting back with an ex please help.
Big_A Posted May 14, 2006 Posted May 14, 2006 If you are really serious about this relationship you need to get some real communication line open. It would be best if you could see couples counseling. If you don’t deal with your feelings together, then you’ll be dealing with them apart.
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