Dagny Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 I guess this is a really tulmultous time of my life. Its graduation and everyone is going everywhere. I've gotten used to it though, I've moved around so much that everywhere I go I make friends and then I move and I have to say goodbye to the place I got used to and the friends I made. Why is saying goodbye so hard? I've said goodbye to many people. Its nice that the world is becoming a smaller connected place with the internet. But its not the same. Why do people walk into your life and then just as quickly walk out again? The chinese have a saying: There's no party on earth that will not end and separate. But why is that so? My best friend and I are oceans apart, but yet we stay connected. Thats not a goodbye. But, goodbyes I've never forgotten. Someone I cared about when I was young waving bye to me as he got off the subway. I knew that was the last time I would ever see him again. Someone I met, cared about, fell out with graduation time. We just talked, made up and shook hands. He's travelling and I'm travelling. I know I'm never going to see him again too. I can be myself. I know the answer is c'est la vie. But why do we have to say goodbye to people we love?
chocolate_boy Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 That's just life, maybe the older you get the more you realise it's just the way it is. People are just people and some stay with us, many don't, but others will take their place. Who knows what makes some people connect forever, and others maybe only a year or two max? Either way all part of the big ride that is life.
tikigods Posted May 12, 2006 Posted May 12, 2006 Its really enver goodbye if you keep in touch with them, its not easy sometimes but it can be done Just remember though that while that chapter of your life may be over, you are going to be doing some pretty exciting things and making tons of new friends along the way
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